how does it feel carrying around a future miscarriage or baby without a heartbeat?
I know this may be a touchy subject, but I'm very curious about it & I want to be aware. I am 2 months preggo.
To clarify myself, this question is for those women that have had miscarriages & can recall how they felt before they had the miscarriage or realized at their next check up that their baby had no heart beat.
I am deeply sorry for all those losses & wish you all healthy babies in the future:) Thanks for reading!!
(please no cruel sarcastic remarks)
2010-03-01T17:58:19Z
also, when I say I want to know how you felt before knowing the bad news (miscarriage or baby with no heart beat) I meant physically as in any symptoms?
well thanks any ways readers
AveryKatherine2010-03-04T17:30:20Z
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Hi. If you are asking whether or not you can tell you've miscarried before going to the doctor's office with a missed miscarriage - I didn't feel one bit different in my pregnancy when I went in for routine ultrasound. I knew right away the baby was gone because she wasn't moving at all. I was in shock but I had the presence of mind to ask for pictures, and my doctor gave me two which I now treasure. No symptoms at all. In fact, my pregnancy hormones took two months to return to normal.
Hey huni This is wholly average and I am very sorry. You might believe like this for weeks but :( You wont comprehend why it occurred to you - you proposal the whole lot was once going good, it is simply lifes merciless approaches - I fairly do not get lifestyles. Why receive this type of necessary present to have it snatched instantly back down you. I take into account after my miscarriage - I could not come to phrases without a longer pregnancy. After all I had gotten used to it for virtually 5months. It simply now not reasonable hun. You have had relatively a few unhealthy success - however actually that does not imply you don't have a healthful youngster once more quickly. You must grieve on your little youngster. Can you get a field, and placed within the test pics and any reminiscences? I wrote a diary whilst I was once pregnant - as with my first born I forgot all his being pregnant, so I did it this time, all my notes are in there, I additionally wrote Ruby letters and they're in there too. I received her ashes again at present too so I am going to do anything first-rate too. I understand you will not get ashes again however perhaps you'll do anything like a beautiful little reminiscence field and write down how you're feeling? I did that on the grounds that no-it is easy to pass judgement on what you're pronouncing, no-it is easy to ship you to medical institution on the grounds that they're involved you could OD your self or anything like that. It's only a first-rate method to get it from your method. Seriously, believe loose to electronic mail me hun, you'll inform me something - if now not, desire you do have anyone you'll speak to. Talking it by way of is definately the important thing to relocating on and feeling human once more - I understand I didn't believe human after my miscarriage. Again I am very sorry huni - take it convenient - get plenty of relaxation, and a few chocolate & wine helped me. A well first-rate movie or tub to suppose matters by way of and a field of tender tissues. Hope you feeling greater quickly hun however it does take time. xxxx
You don't feel any different. You just feel like your in a normal pregnancy, it comes as a complete shock when you realise that its dead. It's the worst feeling in the world.