Is this headed for a breakup?

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I've been dating this guy for like two months.  Things went pretty fast.  Suddenly, it's like he is pulling away.  Now I know he needs his time to do his thing, and hang out with his guy friends or whatever.  And I'm not that girl who keeps calling and calling (I've called twice in 4 days).  But I guess I just feel like....he is pushing me away without warning.  He did this once before, and after a day or two came back and was gung-ho and cheery to see me.....meanwhile I was expecting a breakup.  Now....he's telling me he needs space from everyone and it isn't me but he needs space from me too, but he doesn't need time.  I just feel like he wants to breakup but doesn't have the balls to do it.  I've tried lightly talking to him about it.....and he felt it was appropriate to have the conversation with his roomies and ex-gf in the room (I feel so disrespected...rightfully so?).    Soooo......thoughts?

JENNIFER · Accepted Answer

well to me it also sounds like a break up and he dont have the balls to tell you its over. and the whole think about his ex and all that in the room is a big sign of DISRESPECT!!! he should have had anyone in the room but you. so he needs to man up and tell u whats on his mind and stop playing games. to me two months is way to early to say u need space..idk if this helped u? but i tried.

Ramiro · Answer

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rawson · Answer

definite, he's not waiting to cool down because of fact he cant see the lengthy highway forward and how issues will substitute, i do no longer think of he will settle for a dating that may no longer all exciting and video games, perhaps he's entirely a huge baby which will never advance up like my husband. It gets previous after a mutually as fairly once you are the single having to guard unquestionably each thing and the funds are transforming into screwed up because of fact he basically desires to spend spend spend and the main needed issues come final like, lights furnishings, water , motor vehicle funds etc. i'd ruin up with him because of fact he's not waiting, bypass discern I would desire to prepare what I carry forth. Befor you recognize it you would be older and older and older and not bypass any the place in existence yet in his direction. pay attention!!! that may no longer be the location which you somewhat prefer to bypass.

Country Gentleman · Answer

confront him and talk about it and dont stop until the issue is resolved

Is this headed for a breakup?

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