Do I go back to the bar or will it seem desperate?
So last night a friend and I went to a bar for a couple of drinks. The bartender seemed pretty nice....maybe a little overly friendly. It was his third day there. He flirted a little, kept coming back to talk to us, and kept looking at me. My friend thought he was definitely checking me out. So...his shift ended and he went and sat with a friend who had come in a ways down the bar and when we left he yelled out to us and told us to come back anytime. Had we left before his shift ended, I might have left my number....but I'm really shy (is that a tacky thing to do...leave your number with a tip?). The other thing is....he works for tips and he's new to the area, so maybe I misunderstood his over friendliness. So...the question is, do I go back to the bar and see if maybe he'll make some kind of move? Does that seem desperate (he's new, so he doesn't know if we're regulars or not)?