he has gone from calling and texting all the time to once a day as soon as we became a couple. When he does call he acts as if everything is fine, friendly, talks about our future plans. I was just so spoiled with that constant communication and now I wonder what's going on? I'm afraid by asking him that will push him back? Something is different, just hoping that it is only the chase is over. Opinions?
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Normally when a guy gets with a women he calls her everyday and a lot more than he would call if he was with you for a long time then the calls would slow down because he knows that you are with him and that he is with you and he doesn't feel the need to impress that much because you guys are together and he showed you in the beginning that! How much he loves you and how much he cares for you! It's a guy thing......Impress in beginnning and let off a little in the middle! Don't worry about it because he still likes you if he didn't he wouldn't even bother calling you at all!
Anonymous
Yea that's a typical man for ya. They aren't too big on textn like crazy all day. I'm sure in the beginning it was different he was trying to win you over. But now he feels comfortable that your his and your not going anywhere. Girls/women could talk all day about anything, guys however are just not into it as much.
Don't feel bad, mine does the same thing. However, I did notice that if I go awhile without any contact HE will be the one starting to blow me up to see whats going on lol
Anonymous
It's just the honeymoon period that's over, hun, not your relationship. You may have lost all the constant communication but you're gaining a future especially if he's talking about the future with you :) It's just a normal relationship. Nothing to worry about by the sounds of it
Kaybay
I bet it is just that the chase is over. If you have this type of man then you need to always keep him on the chase for something. dont ever become too clingy to him. Make him wonder a bit, dont txt him etc. He just sounds like he enjoys the chase!
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Your rite most men dont act this way they never talk about the future if you have talked about that with a man they definatly love you it dose happen tho he probly feels like now hes got you he dosant need to call you as much any more