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Is this typical man behavior?

he has gone from calling and texting all the time to once a day as soon as we became a couple. When he does call he acts as if everything is fine, friendly, talks about our future plans. I was just so spoiled with that constant communication and now I wonder what's going on? I'm afraid by asking him that will push him back? Something is different, just hoping that it is only the chase is over. Opinions?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Normally when a guy gets with a women he calls her everyday and a lot more than he would call if he was with you for a long time then the calls would slow down because he knows that you are with him and that he is with you and he doesn't feel the need to impress that much because you guys are together and he showed you in the beginning that! How much he loves you and how much he cares for you! It's a guy thing......Impress in beginnning and let off a little in the middle! Don't worry about it because he still likes you if he didn't he wouldn't even bother calling you at all!

    Source(s): 28 years as a MAN
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Yea that's a typical man for ya. They aren't too big on textn like crazy all day. I'm sure in the beginning it was different he was trying to win you over. But now he feels comfortable that your his and your not going anywhere. Girls/women could talk all day about anything, guys however are just not into it as much.

    Don't feel bad, mine does the same thing. However, I did notice that if I go awhile without any contact HE will be the one starting to blow me up to see whats going on lol

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It's just the honeymoon period that's over, hun, not your relationship. You may have lost all the constant communication but you're gaining a future especially if he's talking about the future with you :) It's just a normal relationship. Nothing to worry about by the sounds of it

  • Kaybay
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    I bet it is just that the chase is over. If you have this type of man then you need to always keep him on the chase for something. dont ever become too clingy to him. Make him wonder a bit, dont txt him etc. He just sounds like he enjoys the chase!

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  • Nikky
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Your rite most men dont act this way they never talk about the future if you have talked about that with a man they definatly love you it dose happen tho he probly feels like now hes got you he dosant need to call you as much any more

  • 1 decade ago

    Hi - it just sounds as though the initial 'madness' has worn off, thank goodness.

    He's settled into a more comfortable and manageable routine with you; it's lovely that he phones once a day, lots of guys don't even do that.

    Don't ask him what is going on; neediness isn't attractive.

    He's clearly still keen, so just relax and enjoy!

    Good luck.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Guys can get so confused. The chase is *never* over. It takes as much or more effort to keep a girl interested and happy as it does to get her interested in the first place. This works for girls too. If you become 'too comfortable' in your relationship... it gets boring and someone wanders.

  • 5 years ago

    he may be worried that you're a control freak.Some people just like things to happen naturally and are intimidated by a high level of planning.Its human behaviour.How come you didn't give him an input in the planning?Too much planning can make things boring...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If you've slept with him, the chase is definitely over. He's got you...he's comfortable now. Just be sure you ARE a couple. Sometimes people assume when actually they're just one of many.

  • 1 decade ago

    I phone friends about once every couple months.

    By ma n standards, once a day IS a lot of calling.

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