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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsMarriage & Divorce · 5 days ago

This girl is messaging my husband should I confront her or my husbands boss?

There’s a new girl in the office who is a temp she’s just out of college. Anyone in the company can apparently “request” her to come in and do whatever temp work for them. I guess my husband requested her and she gave him her number in case he needed her again. I’m told this is common my husband does have other temps in his phone too. They’ve texted twice. 

The conversation was casual in nature. She said if he ever needed her for a job again just let her know. He said he would and asked her how her date went last night. She said it was ok and he said that’s cool. Then she texted him about the project he had asked her to do and gave him specifics about the project and he said thanks that’s exactly what I wanted complete and he appreciated it. 

I don’t want some young 25 year old messaging my husband. I asked him about it he insists it’s nothing and that I’m being unreasonable and paranoid. Should I text her and tell her he’s married? I’m honestly considering calling the boss and letting her boss know she’s coming on to the employees so she gets fired. I don’t trust this girl she’s obviously single if she’s going on dates!! What should I do?

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  • Foofa
    Lv 7
    15 hours ago

    Rather than getting your husband fired, as would be the result of your plan, maybe just ask him to keep his professional conversations professional and leave it at that. Like it not there are women in the workplace. If you can't handle that then you're going to have to try to marry a monk, because outside of a monastery there are going to be women trying to earn a living. P.S. If she were trying to date your husband she wouldn't be telling him about the other guys she's dating. 

  • 4 days ago

    Stay the heck out of your husband's business and respect that his job is HIS issue and that you deciding to contact his boss, or his coworker, is very likely to result in him being demoted or fired. Certainly humiliated. It's unacceptable behavior. Stay the heck out of your husband's professional life. 

  • ?
    Lv 7
    5 days ago

    The Company has recruited he to do temporary work for seniors .That is exactly what she is doing even with your husband . You have no right to question her or refer the matter to her boss . If you do that the Company will come to know that you are a narrow minded jealousy woman . It will become a laughing matter .Avoid interfering with official matters .  

  • ?
    Lv 7
    5 days ago

    You sound really jealous. You the boss is going to listen to you about business decisions? Haha. If he isn’t banging you’d husband quit worrying about it.

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  • 5 days ago

    Nothing in those texts would indicate the woman was coming onto your husband. Sounds more like she wanted more hours of work. Relax woman, unless you have something else to go on? 

  • Anonymous
    5 days ago

    You are paranoid, insecure and out of line........do not jeopardize your husband's and her job with their boss.  It would be a reckless and dangerous thing to do.

    Work on your self esteem and stay out of your husband's workplace business. 

  • i + i
    Lv 7
    5 days ago

    No, you should not confront 

    her or your husbands boss. 

    [pretending this is real]

  • 5 days ago

    From what you wrote, if I read correctly, she isn't coming on to your husband or fishing for dates. However, I do think she (and he)should be communicating through proper channels...at work, rather than personal emails, phone, etc. If your husband won't request this, then maybe you have something to worry about...with him! 

  • Anonymous
    5 days ago

    Troll score 4/10. Decent writing skills, sound (if uninspired), concept, but you lost points for obviousness and for posting anonymously. Sorry. You've got 12 days to start trolling more convincingly however if you want to.

  • T J
    Lv 7
    5 days ago

    There is not one thing for you to be upset about. this is all normal. You really need to check your trust issues.

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