Raise your hand if your tired of being heartbroken...?

This should be the last straw the last heartache I take from him. But I keep coming back for more. I keep answering his calls and his instant messaging... why do I still cry when he ignores me and pour my heart into him while he rejects me... but any day he can come into my bed and wrap his arms around me and hold me tighter into his heart... I deeply love him and this gets harder every second... every day...I love him, I soo soo desperately love him...

Anonymous2010-07-18T01:35:17Z

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I can tell you this happens to men too.The individuals who treat people like you like that are selfish and it crosses both genders.Your love is chaining you in but it is not chaining him..As much as it hurts
you should stop answering his calls.You are one of those people who can truly love and you will love again.Keep your chin up and as much as you will cry inside present the world with a loving,caring,
smile and someone else will come your way.

cool breeze2010-07-18T08:25:20Z

Thank you mother,May I have another ? With each new beginning comes and ending. with each new ending ,comes a new beginning.. life is an adventure. live. love. laugh and grow stronger. When you think about those X's do you dwell on the pain or the happy times ? When a woman gives birth,how soon is the pain forgotten and replaced by joy..

It's time to end that adventure and have some more.

LAgirl2010-07-18T08:17:38Z

I was seeing the same kind of selfish man. As soon as I knew for sure that he didn't love or respect my feelings, I was gone! I walked away. It's easier than you think. Turning your back on him is a taste of his own medicine. Don't let him hurt you anymore! Stop responding. Getting over him will be less and less painful than keeping him around.

There are lots of men who actually deserve your heart.

?2010-07-18T08:04:52Z

why don't you try going on a live chat dating sight, put a nice photo on there and you will probably get lots of sexy guys wanting to know you. it will give you an ego boost and make you aware of how much your unappreciated byhim .im sure hes got some good faults, try to remember them and think about how you don't have to put up with them because you free and single. if he can play you he will, how long are you going to let him use you until you see the light . dont waste any more of your precious life. one day you thank me if you listen to my advice and use it

Daydreamer2010-07-18T13:08:10Z

Sometimes you just have to put your foot down.
You have to decide not to let him make you miserable.
Give him an ultimatum - 'be with me or not'.
If not, just cut him out -- the fact is you don't need people who drain your happiness.
I know you're going to miss him, and want to call him, but resist. There's someone better out there for you.

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