How are white American women like me viewed around the world, and why?
I am American born, more promiscuous (in past) than the average woman, am athletic, outspoken, am willing to cook and clean, am somewhat of a perfectionist. I can be incredibly nurturing and nonjudgmental. I have the heart of a mother and teacher. I take good care of myself, have great skin, look good for my age (28) - most people say I look much younger. But, I want a career of my own, and although I would make a fabulous housewife, it's not what I want, nor would I be willing to do all the housework if I was working the same hours. Is this unattractive to most of the world? I actually prefer a partner with more sexual experience... why is this not true from a man's perspective?
2010-09-03T05:33:28Z
Thanks Marco - you're still mad about the previous answer you insulted me over... it's hate like that that motivates me to keep going, to prove you wrong.
2010-09-03T05:58:14Z
These answers prove to me that people really aren't that different anywhere... there are Americans that don't like me, and others that want someone like me. I don't care, as long as those men hold the same standards to themselves.
2010-09-03T06:31:29Z
Wow! American women are now struggling with world prejudice, according to YA! And also white women in America from other races... Bring it on!
2010-09-03T06:35:20Z
@ RichardM - I am not materialistic, personally. I want to be a doctor, and would be happy marrying a carpenter, if he were a hardworking good guy...
2010-09-03T06:38:29Z
@ all overweight comments - I am not overweight, nor have I ever been... but it is an epidemic in the U.S. and poorly misunderstood - people that struggle with weight issues are people, too.
Anonymous2010-09-03T05:36:55Z
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I live in the states and have traveled the world. There are lots of whores in alot of countries. I dont think ours is the worst. Most countries are more open publicly to sex than us. So the women of most countries especially europe...throw themselves at you more. American women in my opinion are just to use to the good life and all the perks we have in the states.ie...nice clothes, and cars, more food to choose from and jobs. Go to a bar or club and most American women will not talk to you unless you have money, or buy them drinks. Other countries the women are easier to please. But I just believe American women are to materialistic compared to most countries.
I am sure in the Western World that should not present a big problem. There are many women who want to have a career of their own and who look for a partner who shares the housework, which should be normal if both are working. At age 28 a lot of women now aren't ready to want to start a family. This can change later and women can still become first time mothers in their mid 30's or even early 40's if they should wish to... I am sure there are men out there who are looking for women such as yourself.
It's the countries were women are still suppressed by men where your way of thinking would be frowned upon but hopefully there will come a day when women of those countries will gain more independence and are allowed to make choices for themselves and are not supposed to fulfill the typical role of a woman... ''child bearing, church and kitchen and ''obedience towards their partner or spouse). Sadly there are many countries where this still exists.. The Western World is fairly open minded and would view women like you as normal and accept this.
Oppression of women exists in a lot of countries, amongst others in Afghanistan, Iraq, Saudi Arabia, Pakistan, etc..
you sound like a high Achiever with a constant want to better yourself, and not actually for anyone else or to prove a point, you seem very confident and that is what will make you shine in any job as long as you don't fall into the trap of becoming very bossy.
im female so i cant say this would be attractive to me but actually many men want a woman who is in total control of her life and is willing to push themselves further. Not everyone wants a house wife.
One thing I can say is that American women tend to be unrealistically picky. They are the queens of double standards and want the best of both worlds. I'm American like yourself. I would rate my looks around a 6, and I'm not white; I therefore have a tough time with American women. I've had more luck with European women; they are far more approachable, far less judgemental, and better looking than American women, I'm sorry to say.
Foreign girls love American guys, but American women are not prized at all. When a young man announces to his family that he's marrying an American girl, the reaction is often something like "oh crap, he's screwed"
In general American women are considered to be over bearing, self centered, not family oriented, over weight, and to care free with their life style! You asked and now you know. By the way, American men are considered to make the best husbands in the world!