Its about a girl - _ -?

So, first off i want to say that i am 19 years old, and i am a christian man. I love the lord and i go to an Apostolic church and i am single. I ve been there for about 6 months now and i know just about everyone there. I play guitar for the music ministry so everyone just about knows me.
I am abstinent until i marry my wife and i am in college for Music.
I am growing spiritually but still think about who my wife will be.
There is this girl at my church and she is the only girl (my age) that is attractive to me.
I dont say much to any of the females because my pastor teaches holiness and i am obedient.
( i am practically the ONLY single male in the church, all the other men are married or is getting married this month lol)
i dont want talk to her because im not ready to get married yet and i dotn want a realation becuase it will just make things harder for me and i think she has been single for a while, so she dont even look my way unless i say hello.
so if i was (hypothetically speaking) was to start to get to know her, how would i go about doing so??

Delusion Crusher 100002010-10-09T20:33:25Z

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FIrst of all, get rid of your wants and any expectations you may have. Next, you should treat this girl with the utmost respect. Then, having done that, simply approach her like any other believer and just start talking. It's not a big deal. Besides, she might be the one. You won't know until you get to know her.

Benny2010-10-10T03:36:13Z

Walk up to her, extend your hand, look her squarely in the eyes and say "Hello, I'm Shelz, I don't believe we've met."

?2010-10-10T03:34:35Z

All I can think of is how tedious your life must be. I'm sorry.

Chelsea2010-10-10T03:30:54Z

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