what personality would you consider me to be?

Well, im a guy, and i am just curious what you would consider me. here...
i am nice in my opinion i always hold the door for people, when anyone drops something i help them pick it up, and i guess i am good with secrets, i am a good listener, and i know how to handle problems.
ive never started a fight, or hit a girl lol.. im not shy though.. i can do a play in front of obama if i wanted, on the spot. but people call me mean.. i don't think i have done anything to earn this title...?
anyways, i usually have something diffrent about me each week, weather it be my clothes my style or something of the sort, but i've never been mean iin my opinion, what do you think?

?2010-11-11T21:06:24Z

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Introspective, and a bit overly sensitive. It's not a title. If it hurts it's because you're thinking of YOUR idea of mean. They use the same word, but you don't know what they're actually thinking. For all you know, you not being able to read their mind is why they're upset.

If you aren't mean by your own standards, then don't worry about it.

If it really is a behavioral issue of yours, someone will eventually talk to you about it. Don't you think? If not, then they are calling you that for reasons that have nothing to do with you. Maybe they have a crush on you and they're too immature to realize that that is why they're frustrated, not because you actually did something. Maybe they're jealous.

Sounds like it's other people's assumptions, not yours.

Anonymous2010-11-12T04:54:31Z

This is just my opinion, based on your short writing, but it looks like that people call you mean because you are making fun of them. Not everybody is going to appreciate it when you do a play with them, especially when they are in a bad mood.