is my life messed up?

im pregnant with my daughter's father's son and he is engaged to another girl and im 18 is my life messed up

Anonymous2010-12-11T08:07:27Z

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YOUR PREGNANT GOD WHY DIDN'T YOU TELL ME IM HALFWAY ACROSS THE STATE!!!

Transparent2010-12-11T15:50:25Z

The question is did you mess it up? and what's going to happen when you daughter get's older and starts to understand everything. How will her life be. The 18 year old mom who also got pregnant with her daddy's son, and maybe she'll feel like her mom care's more about herself than she cares about her daughters life or feelings, because you're already bringing her into all this mess. but the damage is already done, so now the question is how do you fix it? how do you erase everything and start all over? you don't, that's how. You move on. you try to be the best mom you can be and learn from your mistakes. you can choose to fix this or leave it the way you made it, and let your daughter suffer. Wondering what she did wrong to deserve this life she's been brought into. so what will it be? reality is harsh. It's tough, whether you ask for it or not, just you decided to ask for it. So the decision starts now. From now on your priority is your childs life safety and happiness. she can have a normal life, and have a mother to love and love her back, and things can be fixed. it wont be perfect, but it's what you've got. and she will be grateful to have a mother to do so. not many people are lucky enough to have that. Best of luck in life.

Anonymous2010-12-11T16:14:07Z

no, this is a baby, your baby, and it is exciting. someone who will always be a part of you. As I said that even though it may seem really tough now, there is soo much more good in life than bad, you just have to look hard enough to see it. remember that.
you will get through.

Paula2010-12-11T15:06:40Z

definitely not if you have lots of support; it's only halted if you have zero support

Anonymous2010-12-11T15:37:48Z

yeah. stop screwing everyone you see.

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