Why do so many women like the pricks of the world?
Is there a logical answer to this question? I am very good to my girlfriend. I try to do nice things for her as often as I can. I love her very much. It took me a long time to find someone I enjoy being nice to and who will accept the daily things that I can provide like doing her dishes, cooking dinner for her, doing her laundry, cleaning her house, spending time with her, watching movies, playing board games, going for walks, and just sitting and talking for hours. We have a very healthy emotional and physical relationship and we're both very happy. I enjoy spending time with her family and doing family functions with her and I know that she's the one I'm destined to spend the rest of my life with. In the past, I tried dating other women and I tried doing those nice things for them as well, with the same well meaning intentions. Those women that I tried dating in the past can't seem to get away from dating guys who enjoy treating them with disdain, ignorance and downright rudeness. I guess I found the right one, but what about those who dismissed me as being too nice? Why do they keep dating guys like that? And why do they tell me now that they should have hung on to me when they had the chance? Granted, I'm no Tom Cruise and I'm not rich in any way. I'm just a nice person who has a lot to give to the right person. Why are there so many women out there who aren't willing to take the kindness that a man wants to give?