my dog eats when she is hungry, how could I get another dog?

My dog only eats when she is hungry, so I keep her daily amount of food out for her to have access all day. I know you should get your dog to eat when you put the bowl down, and even though I tried this thinking she will get hungry enough to eat when I put it down she never did. She didn't eat for 3 or 4 days as a puppy so I started leaving it out for her to get as she wants. Some days she eats all her food while in her cage during the day, sometimes she only eats at night, and some days she doesn't eat anything. How would it be possible for me to get another dog and get it to not eat her food since it sits out, or how could I get my dog to eat when I put her food down not just when she wants? She is also quite passive as I taught her to not be possessive over food or toys, so she wouldn't protect her food and set the limits. Anyone else have this same issue and how did you overcome it? I would really like a second dog, but my current dog, of course, comes first.

2011-01-11T11:11:40Z

Thanks for everyone's quick responses! My dog is an almost 2 year old flat-coated retriever mix. She is super energetic, and hates to miss out on what we are doing which I think is part of the problem. She doesn't want to waste 5 minutes eating while my wife and myself are up and doing stuff in the house. As to mixing gravy and things like that in her food, I prefer to only feed my dog dog food, but she has had gravy mixed in at my wife's parents house. She ate a little of it and then didn't eat until the next day. I have tried 3 or 4 different types of food and she eats like a traditional dog for the first few days and then it's back to her style of eating. She has been socialized very early on and knows not to be aggressive to other dogs over food or things so I'm not real sure she would eat if another dog ate her food regularly. We have talked to our vet about the way she eats, and were told not to worry about it its just how she is. She is a very good weight, incredibly he

2011-01-11T11:22:00Z

I understand that I should have fed on a schedule and stuck to it, but when your 12 week old puppy doesn't eat for 4 days I felt it was more important to get her food than work out a schedule. As to the free feeding, she does not free feed. She gets a set amount of food once a day, and she can eat that amount as she likes. If she eats all her food for the day I don't give her more until the next day. I'm sure in the winter as neither of us is as active she needs less food and thus eats less frequently, and I do keep track of how much I give her and how much she eats, and she typically eats what has been determined to be a normal amount of food each day given her particular activity level.

rosagallica20022011-01-11T11:12:34Z

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You let your dog blackmail you into feeding her the way she wants nad although she may seem "passive" to you, she's really the boss in your house. Until you get her on a schedule and establish with her that you are the boss, getting another dog will present you with a lot of challenges. You're very wise to try to resolve this first.

I would start by dividing her food into four portions and four times a day, putting a portion down. If she refuses to eat when you put it down, pick it up, don't give her any treats, and at the next feeding time, put down just a portion. She may dig in her paws at first but eventually, she WILL eat.

Then I would divide it into three, and then eventually two portions, doing the same thing. Most dogs do well with two feedings a day, although it's certainly not a problem to feed larger dogs only once.

One of the reasons that she may not eat everything is you may be feeding her too much, thinking she needs more than she does. Once puppies get to be about a year (give or take a few months) and stop their most active growth, their caloric needs diminish dramatically. She might not need nearly as much as you are offering her. You're very fortunate that she seems to have the ability to walk away when she's sated. Many dogs, given the way you feed, would eat their way to obesity.

You can get an idea of what her caloric needs are here: http://www.peteducation.com/article.cfm?c=2+1659+1661&aid=2612

But this is only a guide. What I would do to start is keep a diary and really assess how much she eats over the course of a week and average it out per day.

Also, right now she doesn't "seem" food aggressive but remember, she has no other dog to challenge her. Another dog may bring out some aggression that might shock and dismay you. Do some reading ahead of time and prepare for it and everything will work out fine.

Cazzy Pants2011-01-11T11:04:47Z

With regards your first question, as my Dog got older, he stopped eating when I put his food in front of him. For this reason, I will leave it down for 15 minutes, and remove if not eaten. Don't worry, the dog won't starve, and will likely eat the next time you put food down. If he's persistently leaving the food, I'd take him to the vet.

I also have a 13 week old pup, who would literally eat until he explodes! I measure his food, as recommended on the pack (weight to age ratio.) I feed both dogs in separate areas, behind a closed door. This is super important, as I made the mistake of feeding them at the same time, which resulted in the pup having the top of his ear bitten off :( No worries, he's all recovered now!

You don't mention the breed of your dog. Do a bit of research to see what kind of dogs are compatible, but remember, regardless of the breed, each dog has their own personality! When you get a new dog, be sure you supervise them together at all times during the first few days. After that, neither will remember a time that they weren't together!

Enjoy! 2 dogs = double the love!!!!

?2011-01-11T11:01:41Z

My family and I have three dogs; 2 big Aussies and 1 small Havanese. The little dog could probably do as your dog does, as she does this when I take her with me to my grandparent's, but the bigger ones eat it within a minute or two. Therefore, if you were to get another dog, I believe it would have to be of bigger size and know that it will eat it all in one sitting, otherwise both dogs would do as your one does now.

Also, if you have not talked to your vet maybe you should mention your situation just to double check that there is nothing wrong.

By the way, my little dog typically eats all her food in one sitting and knows to keep an eye on it when she isn't. Good luck

Steve E2011-01-11T11:03:46Z

I have always free fed my dogs. My first dog has been free feeding for over 5 years when I got my pup he just followed suit and he is free feeding.

The past 2 years my 5 year old dog has gone to Vancouver for 24 days and was staying in a hotel with my friend and her three dogs so she put my dog on a schedule he had no problem going onto a schedule feeding with her dogs. He is now home and back to free feeding my pup ad my dog both eat the same food so I keep the bowl full.

Smile092011-01-11T11:03:13Z

You sound like a brilliant owner !

If she doesn't seem interested in her food first try and make it more interesting you wouldn't want to eat the same things over and over, Trying mixing it with little bits of chicken or meat, try it with gravy, or left overs or try a mixture of wet and dry food anything you can think of. Then put it down infront of her and see if she eats it, if she doesn't take it away from her and leave it for half an hour then put it infront of her again if she doesn't eat it leave it for another half and hour and try again. Also make sure she doesn't get treats during the day or bits from your meal then she will be looking out to just eat those little treats now and then, Hope this has helped ! x

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