Anything wrong with dating a pregnant woman?

Ill try to make this long story as short as possible for you guys. I'm at a stage in my life where I finished school early last year and got my career going and I am done with the whole one night stand thing. I'm only 25 years old but I just want to settle down with someone now. It's kind of weird coming from someone as young as me because most men in their 20s would not touch a pregnant female with a stick. The woman I am currently dating is 22 years old. Mexican American, petite.. very pretty.. sweet girl. And she's also 5 months pregnant. I used to work with her at a local video game store (Gamestop). She was in a relationship while I was working there, which kept me at bay. I went to the store about 2 months ago and she has a little belly going. I was surprised, store was lonely so I stayed to chit chat with her. She told me everything that was going on with her. Apparently her now ex boyfriend disappeared when he was told she was pregnant with his child. Right then there and I asked her if she wanted to get something to eat sometime. I guess she took it as "He feels bad for me and just wants to take me out this one time to comfort me". We went out it, we ate and walked around. We went out a second time and I guess this time she found a bit strange and told me "Why are you doing this? You don't want someone in my position to be part of your life now". I explained exactly how I felt about her and I told her I wanted to take her out again and she accepted. After our third date, we have been seeing each other almost every day for the past 2 months. I have been taking her all over the place, I take her to those special yoga classes for pregnant women. I honestly don't know what to think right now.

justanotherdick572011-01-12T01:43:11Z

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Nothing wrong with dating a pregnant woman. Do you love her, does she love you. Then date her.

Anonymous2011-01-12T01:54:39Z

There is nothing wrong with dating a pregnant woman because that is so sentimental especially when her ex left her for that reason. Its the most wonderful thing a woman could ever want from a man like you to accept her for what she is going through right now; being a woman myself but not pregnant, that is so sweet to know that you both care about each other. Good Luck!

Erin2016-03-02T06:06:09Z

There is nothing wrong dating a pregnant woman. My husband and I dated when I was 4 months pregnant. He's a very cute Chinese guy 10 years younger than me. We used to work together. I was his manager. My bump wasn't obvious at the time, but I was honest with him about my age and my condition. Our chemistry's clicked and we fell in love. He wanted to marry me. He also wanted to be the legal father of my unborn child. Our marriage certificate was finalized before my daughter was born. He adopted my daughter as his own. We have been very happy together eversince.

Phoenix212011-01-12T01:57:37Z

You're an extraordinary man (some may think what your doing is stupid though). Not alot of men your age would be willing to take a women on with her "baggages" & problems, perhaps that is the strength of your character. There is nothing wrong in dating a pregnant women (considering the circumstances she faced) you just have to be very careful not to be taken advantage of. But if she is a good person, then really your life might just be fulfilled

Anonymous2011-01-12T01:53:20Z

Completely fine.
Im 21 and my gf has a 1 year old (not mine)
It can be restricting at times which can be frustrating but you learn to deal with it, and i dont think any less of her because of her son I still love and care very much for her, and i love her son like hes my own. Basically what im trying to get at is If you really care about this girl and think you will be happy with her then keep seeing her, but you have to understand that with her baby's daddy being gone you may have to take up some responsibilty of being a father even though your not the kids father if your in its life from birth it will think you are.
So its upto you if your ready for that commitment.
Good Luck! Hope this helped.

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