What's a girl to do? Racism or not?

My parents are no more racist than anyone else, but they won't let me date black kids! There was this boy last year who was black that I dated and my parents freaked out! They thought that I would get a reputation as a ******lover and no white boys would date me after that. Me and the boy broke up but now we are talking again and I really like him, he's sweet and nice, chances are it won't work out anyway, (we are just in highschool) but I really want to get together with him. What should I do? If I date him secretly we will never be able to see each other. If I date him openly my parents will destroy my phone and make my life miserable. I don't want to just forget about him though....any help is appreciated.

Anonymous2011-01-21T15:29:35Z

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Your parents are racist. Plain and simple. It is disgusting. Anyone who uses the phrase "****** lover" is racist. No white kid worth dating would ever care if you once dated a black guy. I certainly wouldn't. It is not fair to that kid to avoid him based on his race. It is disgusting, unjust, and immoral.

Some Guy2011-01-22T05:05:10Z

Race mixing is wrong. Race mixing is the decay of western socioty and the worst part is that once it is done it can't be undone. You should meet a nice white guy and learn to be proud of your own race. No that does not mean being a hater. I am a White guy in my early 20's and yes, it is a HUGE turn off when a white girl dates a black guy. Is there something wrong with you that you cant meet a white guy?

Full o Q's2011-01-21T23:32:01Z

i agree with Bob