I'm pissed off at my best friend right now because she's kill joy especially about my drinking alcohol. I know she's just concern about me, but her telling me about this over & over again is annoying. She even hits me when I talk about that stuff. Sometimes I wanna tell her to quit acting like she's my parent, but I think that might hurt her. My parents don't mind if I get drunk, though.
micool62
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Yes. My best friend can be totally like that. Sometimes he tries to impose his own "punishment" on me like trying to make me sit out a round of a videogame for slagging someone off or something. I tell him he doesn't have the authority. It pisses me off. He keeps saying he's trying to help me but even that's annoying cause he's putting himself above me, like he has something I don't. Cmon, we both have flaws.
Funky Bird, the Jewish Pastafarian
If you know that she's acting out of concern, why are you telling her to stop? Do you not want your friend to be concerned for you? Seems to me, that's what a friend does. And it also seems to me that if she's your friend and she's expressing a concern, maybe it's time to LISTEN, and decide if she's right. Whether your parents care or not, getting drunk on anything approaching a regular basis is a BAD idea, and a good way to destroy your liver. If you can't be honest with yourself, then what good are you?
Anonymous
yeah. But not about alcohol. I don't drink anymore, I'm kind of annoyed with alcohol now.
My bestfriend always wants to "fix" my relationship with my exboyfriend. We still talk but I'm been distancing myself from him. However, I still feel like I love him and feel the pain of missing him and wanting to hold him. I just wish she would put her arms around me and comfort me instead of tell me what I need to do with my life.
Either, she's a great friend just for the simple fact that she cares. I just feel alone sometimes when I want to be free and let my tears out on someone's shoulder.
Anonymous
Tell her the truth. Let me guess, ur white LOL
Minoritys dont give a F*ck lol, Im not being Racist, but its so true.
Str8 up tell her, be like "Back the hell off an quit actin like my dam mom (or dad), If I wanted a lecture, Id go to them"
I cant judge u on ur Drinking, but there u go.
Anonymous
YES YES I HAVE! One time my friend spent the night and i grabbed 2 beers outta the fridge and she was all like "NO I AM NOT GOING TO DRINK THAT ARE YOU CRAZY!" and i was like fine i'll just drink both. So.. I opened mine and started drinking mine and she started giving me this lecture that i shouldnt be drinking bla bla bla and how i was under age and all kinds of stuff OMG it go so annoying and finally after like 30 minutes after her stupid lecture lol i had already finished my beer and was starting on hers i was just like 'OMG SHUT THE HELL UP AND QUIT ACTING LIKE MY MOTHER" and i think i mighta even cussed her out a bit but she shut up after that haha! she wasn't mad though... Or at least i dont think she was idk i was kinda buzzed so i didnt really care and i didnt really remember