Is this girl interested?

Ok well I met this girl last year in the fall. She seemed so sexy to me and she knew what she was doing and I liked it. I didn't acknowledge her or try to talk to her and this drove her crazy.We saw each other at a party and we got close and personal and we kissed, but we were kinda drunk and all in good fun. I took her back to her dorm and we had sex, but I hardly remember it. It was good, but it felt meaningless. I didn't see her for about 5 months til just yesterday. We hung out and talked and we got along pretty well and I kinda flirted with her and she would do it back, but nothing obvious that she liked me more then a friend. When she talks to me I look her straight in the eye and Im gonna assume she likes it, because it shows that I care about what she has to say. I complimented her on how cute her crooked smile was even though she disagreed with it and her incredible eyes, but I really got nothing in return. Like I was doing all the flirting and it really didn't phase her...more like thanks and thats it. I'm confused on what my next move should be...she has dated a lot crappy guys and I feel like I would be good for her down the road and I think she knows this. Any advice? I'm 20 and she is 19 and she has a independent side to her and I want her know that im not gonna get in the way if things get serious, but I dont know if I can trust her. She hooked up with me while she was dating someone...I don't really like that. Trust is a big deal. Any advice plz...

?2011-03-16T22:13:29Z

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It'll take a lot to get her interested in you. Keep at it a little but back off if she doesn't open up to you eventually. If she's independent, she'll get tired of you easily. I'd say at this point she is vaguely interested in you but doesn't really care about you except as a cute, flirting acquaintance.

Anonymous2011-03-16T22:12:06Z

Yeah man! I may not be Doctor Love, but I do know where you're coming from. I was high at a party one time and had sex with my best friend (she's a girl, bro, don't worry) and I only remembered that I had sex with her from waking up naked on her floor and with her naked as well right next to me. Fun! Next move: Ask what she's doing. If you're on a campus where you can break off and get a bite to eat then go to your dorm for some drinks, then you've got yourself a time to strike.

?2011-03-16T22:24:00Z

Dating is the casual social encounter between people and it determines if the relationship will be taken to another level. How can a person find the one they really like unless they do the research? If you like her so much, then ask her out immediately.

Anonymous2011-03-16T22:09:06Z

If you're doing all the flirting than she probably isn't that interested...but I don't know the girl, she just may not be a flirtatious person.
simple solution: ASK HER :) good luck!

Bohannon'S Girl2011-03-16T22:15:29Z

lol girls hid there feelings and to me it seems like she likes u and well girls like to be treated nice and they like complements lol that is how my love won me over so try get her love treat her nice always compement her become her friend/best friend and eventuly she should hall for u and never give up lol my bf tryed to win my heart ever sence i met him witch was like 3 years ago but now im happy with him and i think im prego with his kid and we love eachother so much and well yah love is love lol and it seems like u have a awesome shot so u better treat he sweetly lol :d well love u all :P

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