Does free will really exist?
It seems everything we do and think is conditioned by past experience and reflection on past experience. And I suspect that our reflecting on our reflecting, and our reflecting on our reflecting on our reflecting etc. are shaped by our mental tendencies, which I believe are not entirely under our control. So in each instance, it seems that in a vastly complex way, everything we do, think and feel, is pre-determined, by what we are (our biology, make up, traits, the fact we're human beings, the capacity to learn etc.), the environment we live in, and our experiences.
For instance, does a person really consciously choose their likes and dislikes? Or do they really become aware of them, and believe that they were consciously chosen?
I don't think there's ever a situation where you can't say "this was entirely a conscious choice with no influence by past programming, perceptions, emotions, believes, societal values or the fact I'm a human being living on planet Earth, etc."
Correction of last paragraph:
I don't think there's ever a situation where you *can* say "this was entirely a conscious choice with no influence by past programming, perceptions, emotions, believes, societal values or the fact I'm a human being living on planet Earth, etc."
Did your sister chose not to like shrimp in the first place? When she finally tried it, and liked it, did she choose that she would like the shrimp, or just realise that there was a mental and emotional response that wasn't one of disgust as she'd expected? Did she choose the conditions (environment, level of persuasion, level of alcohol) she'd need to lessen the original disgust/fear about trying shrimp to bypass that inhibition?