some times my boyfriend rubs/lightly strokes my inner thigh. its so hot, and makes me really horny. he starts at my knee and goes all the way up past my crotch to the bottom of my stomach, and back down again. does he know how much it turns me on? (im wearing pants) i try doing the same thing to him, but he kinda squarms & jerks away. i think ot turns him on a lot, and he just doesnt want me to feel/ see his bonerr. do you think im right? how can i do it to him so that he stays still? i know he likes it. . oh & we dont have sex if this helps. im 16 & he is 18. weve been together 6 months. and we are saving sex til later, when we know we are ready. ((OH and its not like ive never felt his ***** before, we always make out and he lays on top of my, or i'll kinda sit on his lap, and we'll usually kinda dry hump a lil. so ya))
?2011-07-05T01:14:51Z
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You guys are SOOOOOOOO responsible. I have so muchs respect for you, unlike most of the questions I hear on here.
PROUD OF YOU for waiting and you have been together 6 months already!!! Most people have sex within like a week hhaha. Me and my man waited until a few months *not 6 months though( but have been together 3 1/2 years and were each others 1st /bf/gf and aree both 22) but anyways, YESS i think you are exactly right haha.
He likes it when you do that. haha. And I LOVE it when my man does that to me too, it turns me on soo much because you know he is near your.......ya know.
But hun, if you are "dry humping" and all that, and felt his..diccckkk, then maybe you are ready??? I mean, 6 months is a long time. =) Not telling you, you should, its your choice.
I totally see your point, it is a total turn on lol. The problem is if you both get really "horny" you may get carried away and end up having sex. This may be what's bothering him, as he knows you agreed to wait and doesn't want to go against that - especially as he is older than you. You are basically teasing each other [I've been there, I know ;)]. There is no way to make him stay still, that's his own decision. Over time he may let you, but I wouldn't force it upon him. Also, maybe he just finds it extremely ticklish :)
talk to him, its that simple next time he starts to move away ask him if he likes the way it feels, or if he just doen't want his ***** notice. tell him you don't mind the ***** and would like to see him pleased, teased, turned on whatever the case may be, and if he doesn't like that ask him what he would like instead. and its going to take you talking to him i grew up without any male influence in my life and its a subconcious mind f*^% that life puts men through to naturally hide there boners so maybe hes still there and nothing less than a direct conversation will fix that hinting at it won't make him sure enough to relax you'll need to word for word say that you don't mind seeing his ***** that you want to or something like that but remember no hinting.
It sounds like it either a its a tickle spot and he feel weird which if that's the case then I would leave it alone or it makes him extremely horny and he is trying too wait like you said before you guys take that step. In any case the easiest way to find out the answer touch him their and ask him why do you move when I touch you on your leg baby and he will tell you.