My boyfriend and I have been together for a long time. We're both in our early twenties and have 2 children together... While I'm at work he sits at home and watches porn all day... i have asked him many times not to and he just doesn't listen... I told him recently if he doesn't stop i wont have sex with him anymore... if porns that important for him to lie to me and say he won't do it anymore, why does he need me? It makes me feel insecure or like I'm not good enough for him... should I feel this way... should he stop like I asked him to? Or am I being too hard on him?
1. Guys watch porn. They just do. It's how they fulfill all their sexual fantasies that you won't do for them. Find out what he watches and see if you'd be willing to do any of it. Maybe he's into dress up stuff, or lesbian, or foot fetish, idk, but maybe you'd be willing to do this stuff for him so that he doesnt have to resort to porn to get his fill of it.
2. Maybe you just don't give him enough regular sex. He might watch porn less if you opened your legs more often.
3. On the other hand, he might not. Once in a blue moon, there is a person with a legitimate porn addiction. If all else fails, see if he'll seek help.
You're being too hard on him. It's not like he's chatting with other women, hooking up with them, and sleeping with other people. Masturbating to porn is completely different than having sex with someone you love. It sounds like he needs release a lot more than you do, so it's hard for you to understand or relate. He doesn't watch it because the women are attractive or he wishes you would do certain things; he watches it to assist him in achieving an orgasm. Nothing wrong with it.
Some guys have a huge sex drive. You're obvously not satisfying his. On the other hand sitting around all day jerking off instead of working is not very productive either.
You to take another look at this men are not like women we think about sex every day and he uses porn to get rid of that built up testosterone. Think about this would you rather have have sex with another women to keep satified when your not their and liy about it. Don't be too hard on him he's a guy and its not something you can get rid of ok and i know he thinks your beautiful.