Am i being too hard on him for watching porn?

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My boyfriend and I have been together for a long time. We're both in our early twenties and have 2 children together... While I'm at work he sits at home and watches porn all day... i have asked him many times not to and he just doesn't listen... I told him recently if he doesn't stop i wont have sex with him anymore... if porns that important for him to lie to me and say he won't do it anymore, why does he need me? It makes me feel insecure or like I'm not good enough for him... should I feel this way... should he stop like I asked him to? Or am I being too hard on him?

Laurie · Answer

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Monica Lynn · Answer

1. Guys watch porn. They just do. It's how they fulfill all their sexual fantasies that you won't do for them. Find out what he watches and see if you'd be willing to do any of it. Maybe he's into dress up stuff, or lesbian, or foot fetish, idk, but maybe you'd be willing to do this stuff for him so that he doesnt have to resort to porn to get his fill of it.

2. Maybe you just don't give him enough regular sex. He might watch porn less if you opened your legs more often.

3. On the other hand, he might not. Once in a blue moon, there is a person with a legitimate porn addiction. If all else fails, see if he'll seek help.

xK · Answer

You're being too hard on him.  It's not like he's chatting with other women, hooking up with them, and sleeping with other people.  Masturbating to porn is completely different than having sex with someone you love.  It sounds like he needs release a lot more than you do, so it's hard for you to understand or relate.  He doesn't watch it because the women are attractive or he wishes you would do certain things; he watches it to assist him in achieving an orgasm.  Nothing wrong with it.

. · Answer

Some guys have a huge sex drive. You're obvously not satisfying his. 
On the other hand sitting around all day jerking off instead of working is not very productive either.

Anonymous · Answer

You to take another look at this men are not like women we think about sex every day and he uses porn to get rid of that built up testosterone. Think about this would you rather have have sex with another women to keep satified when your not their and liy about it. Don't be too hard on him he's a guy and its not something you can get rid of ok and i know he thinks your beautiful.

SA Writer · Answer

I might be more concerned about why he's not out working. As far as watching porn goes, why does it really bother you? Who cares how he develops his appetite as long as he dines at home?

Staszek G · Answer

I think you're over reacting but than again if he watchess it to much and can't control his sex behaviours  than that might suggest sex addiction and can be very troublesome

Anonymous · Answer

Your being too hard on him, ALL guys watch porn, its not americas next top model, theyre not looking at what the girls look, they just wanna jack off to something. 

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Snappy · Answer

Leave him.. He needs to get counseling for his addiction. Porn is trashy and it demeans women. It has nothing to do with you...The problem lies within him. He needs to get a job too.

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