how could he have married her?

how could he have married her when he only met her for one month, been with her for 2 weeks, and married her on the second week when he was supposed to marry me? He never met her in person- only those 2 weeks that he was in the Philippines. He lives in the UK and now the girl is there. She is only 19 and he 48, and me 33. He was supposed to come to me instead of her to marry me. The girl knew of me and that I had a miscarriage of his baby. How could he have done that to me? She's not even pretty. I lost my virginity to him too at age 29.

genikinz2011-09-24T03:26:09Z

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Because he found a child who is of legal age whom he can abuse and that is who he is. Her brain is not even fully developed... not til age 25. He's gonna use her all up.


Count yourself the lucky one here. Your brain is fully developed so use your intelligence and think about this ... take control of your emotions.

I'm glad that you did not get into a marriage with him.

Sorry it happened to you. You are too good for him. You are meant for a real man.

Staci2011-09-24T10:03:33Z

Whoever that jerk is, you're better off without him. The young girl is using him to provide for her and to get her out of her underdeveloped country while she wants to live a better life. He is stupid to be blinded by her youth. He is having a mid-life crisis as he thinks he has gotten a trophy wife when he doesn't know what he has gotten himself into. She likely scammed and manipulated him into marrying her. When she cleans his bank account and leaves him for someone else, he'll have no one to blame but himself.

Anonymous2011-09-24T10:27:12Z

He's a loser, let him go, move on, you're better off without him. This young woman will find out in time what he's really like....there are far better men out there than the man you've just described, very sad example...would make a bad husband and father.

Back to Back2011-09-24T09:57:56Z

I am really sorry to hear this...
Men can change there love anytime.,, Maybe she is rich or more hot and sexy that u that he left u...
I understand u lost ur virginity Just Forget him and move ur life.., I know its not easy but there is no use of being with some1 who doesnt want u....
All the best

Anonymous2011-09-24T09:59:34Z

Coz he is a complete 100% b-as-tard!!! FORGET ABOUT HIM! He's not worth it!!!!