I need help !! I am totally depressed and I need someone to listen !!!?

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You are already thinking positive. You are happy to be alive. Yes, sometimes we end up in situation we never imagined and not so good ones. You're strong. Sometimes we have to do something we don't like to like jobs for start up. But you can learn other things and do what you like to and things you enjoy. Be with friends who are doing well, happy and making good income. Learn from them. Consistently make acquaintances with new people and make your contact list as long as possible and of quality people. Make good relationship with other people. Thank god for everything you have in your life and what you are about to receive. Feel gratitude for everything; warm sunshine, good music, kind and nice people, your health and all other things. It makes you feel good.
"For what we are about to receive may God make us forever Grateful"

"Abundance is the order of the day, don't succumb to the mentality of
lack, for you will attract lack unto you"
~Anonymous

Keep thinking positive and be optimistic. Sincerely compliment other people, their dressing, their way of talking and way of doing things. Encourage them and help them in their endeavours. It'll all come back to you multiple times.
Keep learning and improving and build/create the life you truly desire one step at a time/ one day at a time. I know you want to hurry up and want to be in better situation. But learning is also part of life. When you finally make it out of this situation, from that point on no matter what happens in your life, it won't shake you, you'll still be happy. Because you'll have learned the lesson and would have known the solution and it'll be much easier.

It is all part of a greater plan(we can only let it go and let it happen for the best).
So, keep expecting the best and use all resources available to make your life more easier and better.
You can find free materials on meditation, breathing techniques, visualization and affirmations. This will all help you calm down your mental turbulence and help you create better life.

There is abundance and happiness around you and in your life.
May you soon be aware and come to realize it and be able to experience it.
Have a wonderful and beautiful life!
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I'm so sorry this happened to you. You don't need a psychologist; the most effective therapy comes from yourself. You're a beautiful person, I know this because you're staying alive, and you're happy to be alive. So many people get caught up in society's ways and completely miss the bigger picture. They want to kill themselves but don't realise how much potential they have. I'm so glad that's not you.
You're only young, I know this is a lot to handle but when you overcome it, and you have shelter, are handling your bills and are happily content, you'll look back on this time and realise how strong you are. To be able to overcome something like this is amazing, and I believe you can do that. I'm still a kid myself, but I had depression and I know what it's like, except I was suicidal also.
Forget about your job, forget about money. I know it's hard when all this is around you, but realise that your mind comes first before everything. You need to start from a blank canvas and work from there. This is where it starts, your whole life. Take a walk during the day or evening, and look up at the sky. Totally detach yourself from your situation, just breathe in the atmosphere. Picture the air flowing through your whole body and soul, cleansing everything. Know that your parents are happy, regardless of whether you believe in God or anything like that, just know that nothing dies and disappears. There is not just Earth, and planets, that's not it. The universe is infinite, nothing like they taught you at school. There are forces that watch over you spiritually, they do not have a form, or a personality, just know that you are never ever alone. Sometimes it helps to leave yourself behind for a few minutes, and just let your soul take a look at yourself and your situation to really see the bigger picture for itself. Breathe in everything and imagine that they're feelings. Breathe in happiness, and love for yourself and the Earth, and picture them circling inside your body, dissolving everything negative. Worries do not exist, they're all part of the human ego. Everything you're experience is making your soul stronger, please know that. Before you do anything, you need to know that you're not the only one person going through something like this, and I'm sure you know that too. I understand that comparing your problems to other people's doesn't make it go away, but it humbles you. Reading this, and writing that question; you're already luckier than more than half the world's population. Again, recognise the bigger picture, and this picture really is huge, but it's also beautiful. You have the ability to get a job, regardless of whether you enjoy it or not, you have the gift of education. There is no dead-end here. You can do whatever you want on this Earth, just please don't dive in to your problems. Take a step back, always, and breathe. Thoughts are ideas will come to you if you have faith that they will. Watch meditation videos on Youtube, whatever you feel will help you. Money is worthless if your soul is happy, and happiness fills your mind with wealth. It does sound cliche but it's the most truth I've ever heard. Do you have any other family you can stay with? I'm not sure what they're called exactly, but there are people who let you stay in their homes if you work for them. There are always solutions. Listen to music such as Nujabes and just clear your head. I promise you this will get better, I do promise you that. Just believe that it will, and work towards that image of happiness you have set in your mind. I'm not sure if this helped very much, but I really hope it did. We are all just people, don't ever think that they won't help you. That's the beauty of this planet; stripping away money, status, all of that, everyone is just a canvas. There is always guidance, whether from humans, or spiritually, or from your own mind, believe that. I wish you the very best of luck. I also just came across this site that may give you some more insight too.
http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2010/08/24/the-power-of-hitting-rock-bottom/...Show more

What a sad story; no wonder you are feeling low. Bereavement can be long term, so give yourself some time. I expect your brother has his problems: maybe you remind him of your parents and that upsets him.

I expect that there are blogs and sites for bereaved young people....Show more

I'm not sure I can help you with one "inspirational speech", but perhaps we could begin an ongoing conversation, which I think is what you really need (like therapy, but free and unqualified). Contact me through here if you want....Show more