apparently there is a big problem with making sex on a 2nd date. yesterday it happened to me: the girl accused me of being only focused on sex and not in friendship and passion. it happened also some years ago. the problem is, not all girls i knew reacted like that! i don't know... i'm confused!
2012-02-08T06:13:08Z
@Le Trolling: well... she didn't complaint. in fact, she text me after that 1st time saying "deste-me um prazer descomunal" (you probably don't understand. it's in portuguese)
A2012-02-08T06:08:55Z
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This girl, like several others, probably wants you to pursue her a little bit more--make her feel special and important not just for sex. I get that. If you're not interested in developing a more meaningful friendship with this girl and getting to know her really well, then there are plenty of other girls out there. Nothing wrong with either type of girl, but I think that this girl has a little more depth--She is a keeper!
Because every girl is different. She may think all you want her for is sex. Girls by and large still want a relationship and many want to establish it before they start having sex with a guy. I know one or two who are ready on the first date, most though want to wait several weaks. I made the policy of waiting at least a month, because the one time I actually did it with a guy on the third date (he was absolutely gorgous) it turned out he had several other girlfriends he was doing it with. Which turns me off like a switch no matter how good looking he is or how good he is in bed.
The same difference as it is between being an asshole and a good person.. she has true feelings for you so you should react in the same way..no point giving her wrong impression that you too love her.. and all people are not the same..god knows what kind of girls you were before who were so desperate..she is a nice girl that's why a relationship to her is more than just sex !
It's too soon to establish any respect. Once respect is established (then marriage), the sex will be more meaningful. If people have sex on a 2 date, then there's no self respect. It becomes a selfless, meaningless act.