Please help. Libra man being difficult.?

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I love my boyfriend...thought he was my soulmate and wanted to make it work. But lately he's just gone off the deep end. I am hoping a Libra can shed some light on what is happening and what I can do, if there is anything, to save the relationship. We have had a rough month in life and together. It's been very tumultous and negative. He has mistreated me..and it's like he ran out of apologies. I love him, but now feel insecure and hurt...so I'm now overemotional, overthinking , and overtalking. Recently , all of the suddent, he's started shutting me out..WHich just makes me act and feel even crazier. It's the one thing that hurts me..is to be in limbo. He says I won't let him off the phone, I'm smothering him, he has a crazy short fuse, and has been displaying violence and not really showing remorse I think due tto pride, bc i know he feels bad and knows it's wrong. I am so depressed and literally love sick. IDK why I still care, but I do. Yesterday he threationed to call the cops if I came over, to break up or talk. That is INSANE. Last week he invited me to fly home to his hometown. He's turned on me so quickly and seems very angry with me. He won't even talk to me. He picks up the phone but hangs up shortly after saying he doesnt want to talk about it. He promised to come over yesterday, then got mad when I wouldnt come out with him to th emovies. And said he wouldnt come because he was mad and it wasnt a good idea, but said he would come today. Now I'm not even sure if he will do tha. He doesnt seem to want to talk to me, and wont tell me where we stand int he relationship. Won't break up, etc. He gets mad when I ask. Please help. I am so sad. I just want him to talk to me and tell me how he feels so I can get closure. I thought we were close and he jus turned cold so quick and it's killing me.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

As a Libra I'm very moody I hide my problems from people! Check if he is facing any problem and didn't tell you about it! Good luck!

Maryann · Answer

I don't think it's just a Libra thing. Men are territorial and possessive in general when it comes to their spouse. It's not limited to any of the signs. As for Libras, yeah alot of Libra guys are like that sorry to say. I'm not. I don't have time to play cat and mouse games like that. But I do know from observation, alot of my Libra guy friends always do that to their girlfriends for some reason. I can't figure out why. Perhaps they feel so close to you sometimes they feel the need to retreat not to feel enclosed and suffocated in the relationship. Because Libras are free spirited people. They love to be independent and hate to be tied down to something. But usually when Libras marry someone or say they want to marry someone, they are in love and mean business.

. · Answer

A few things I can tell you is that when you love someone, truly LOVE them, you do not distance yourself from them, as your boyfriend is doing to you. Are you being smothering? Seems like it. It's seeming like the more you're trying to get information out of him and have him open up, the more he's shutting you out.

Communication can be a tricky thing in a relationship, but if it's not there and you both are having a tough time trying to get the words out through your thick skulls, you're going to have a bad time. He should want to open up to you effortlessly and easily, and you shouldn't have to badger him into spilling his guts to you. You should know that regardless of him being a Libra, HE IS A MAN and they do not open up on command like us women can. He must see if he can't solve it himself first, then he will seek an outsider's opinion.

If he's over it, he's over it and you bringing it up again will only tear open the scab. You both need a break from each other, it's sounding like. You both need to reassess HOW you communicate. My Libra guy and I will fight, he will become distant and silent, say he's over it, but his actions make me think otherwise. I need to learn that his word is his word and to DROP IT. I'm still trying to get that through my thick skull, LOL...

But please, keep in mind what I said about the fact that when two people love each other, no matter how pissed they get at each other, they want to be around each other.

scorpus23 · Answer

they think very highly of themselves but have a loving heart at their core. They can be easily led in romantic relationships at times. They can be difficult but once you get through to their soft side it's easy. they break down and let it all go.

Kierra · Answer

Distance yourself give him space n time to think. Make sure he knows u not breaking up u just wanna give him space if that doesn't work leave. It's no need to be miserable!

Please help. Libra man being difficult.?

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