is there a precise psychological term for the following...?
a person uses expressions such as "I'm not after revenge" or "I don't want them to loose their job" in order to try and appear objective and reasonable when attacking another person.
A real life example could be In a workplace this could be one employee reporting on the actions of a fellow worker behind their back to their boss and is trying to avoid appearing to be vindictive.
The technique could possibly also be used to overcome internal feelings of guilt by rationalizing that you are not intending to harm another person if you say you are not.
I heard a term used to describe such behavior once but I can't remember it now.