Do Libras fall out of love quick? Or was it not love to begin with?

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What is his Venus? If its anything like Virgo, Scorpio or Sagittarius, this might have everything to do with it. Scorpio tends to have a love-hate attitude towards the ones they love. They like to shake things up. They tend to be all over the one they love, sometimes they seem to be obsessed if poorly aspected. But then all of a sudden they change their tune and become aggressive/argumentative and this is impart because they like the chase, the passion they felt at the beginning stages, but become highly insecure and controlling in the later stages. This is venus in its detriment and it can be a lot to handle.

Virgo has an awkward way of showing love, they seem highly critical and kind of like a jerk sometimes. But their criticism is sometimes their form of showing they care. They are the fall placement. If he is Sagittarius, he has a fear of being tied down, and although he is charming and adventurous, he hates to feel like he's in something for the long haul. This is the peregrine state of Venus.

I'm just guessing but aspects and poor house placements might also contribute to this. His Pisces Moon makes him quite moody and changeable emotionally. This area might also make him feel trapped in the relationship arena, because he has this need to escape in every area of his life. This is because responsibility and obligation stresses him out. He's very vulnerable here.

You being Leo Sun (Domicile) you need some form of attention in almost every area of your life. If the person you love does not meet this solar need, you will feel neglected. The biggest issue with Libra in the Sun is that they are at a Fall, which means they're ego is highly involved with their sense of identity. A lot of times they enter relationships for the proper reasons, but because of their need to be independent and individual, they fall from the relationship. (sometimes vice-versa). They cannot see that they can be independent and an individual whether they are in a relationship or not. This is because Libra's don't see the difference in acting vs BEING. This causes a lot rift-raft in their relationships, and will continue to be a struggle in this area of their life....Show more

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Do Libras fall out of love quick? Or was it not love to begin with?
I dated a SUPER confused, very bipolar Libra man. At first I was 'perfect'...but then his bs broke me down. I stayed too long. Anyways he was always causing and arguement and finally dumped me in the middle of some contrived dramatic scene...(followed by him crying on my shoulder and saying......Show more

Love's a strong word, and air signs understand words very well. He kind of sounds like a pisces guy, they like their freedom but also closeness. They want physical freedom but an emotional connection. ? I think he IS really confused right now and doesn't know what he wants...don't push him or he'll get angry and may react wildly or avoid you. [pisces moon] Tell him that he's been very indecisive lately and ask if he's having a hard time making decisions now. He is a "very bipolar libra man". lol, I like a libra guy, must be my mars in libra. :D

At least you know when he says in love, he'll mean it! Some guys lie when they say they love someone, when they're not sure. You're lucky or you'll be hurt if he said and it was a lie! :D...Show more

I'm a Libra, I have a twin sister who is one. I know a bunch of them. My sister had a Leo boyfriend at one stage and just fell out of love, but stayed for 6 years keeping them both miserable. I know me and my sis have a long history of failed relationships, falling in and out of love quickly. And we are emotionally unstable. Smart, but emotionally retarded. We don't mean to upset people and make them angry and so we keep sending mixed messages, and we do wish for a better outcome and happy ever afters, but our emotions just do this rollercoaster thing instead.
His family might have acted this way because they were happy he found someone and hoping it would really work out, they just pretend it is all going real well and they would be very accepting of you as his partner, a lot of families handle new situations with their troubled offspring like that....Show more

Yes, Libra is confusing and more intellectual than emotional and I think Libra is a sign that suits guys better as females ones are the real scheming heartless bitches.

I think if you enjoy uncertainty in your life you should still look forward to seeing him. Girls feel normal is boring so don't blame or hate Libra for being only similar....Show more