Hell hath no fury like a Leo scorned! Ugh, but a Leo abandoned...........just sulky. So my ex (libra) burned me so bad...an I played nice with him bc he had manipulated me to do so. He dumped me, and cried on my shoulder. I was super nice. Then we met up, I was super nice. Then he moves takes my stuff and doesn't tell me. I was super nice UGH. I was so warped bc I was so lovesick..that I wasn't being myself. This dude screwed me over...we were dating seriously then he turned on me, then just totally abandoned me. I was super sweet to him, always fixing his problems...not acting very leonian at all..more like a docile kitty. His most recent letter to me, confirming he had moved out of state, was very curt..and rude. He was like: my stuff is in storage. You'll get your necklace back...eventually. Well, it's been a month and I feel like myself again. When I look back I WAS WRONGED. He doesn't seem to really care about me and is just moving on like crazy psychos do as if it never happend. I want to write him a letter telling him what a douche he is. I want to hurt him. Do u think that's a good idea, why? What would hurt a Libra most? Staying silent (he doesn't seem to care) or rattling the cage one last time then deleting him from my fb?
2012-07-10T19:33:35Z
nah he for sure doesn't have another chick. he sits online everynite listening to sad music. trust me,he's alone. he just ha a breakdown and went to live with mommy. left his stuff here in storage. he bailed on his life and got real sad. but he treated me like crap. i dont want to date..but i could make it seem like i'm hanging with new dudes ..eh that's never been my style. a little too silly.
Anonymous2012-07-10T19:52:15Z
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No.
You are better than this. Be the "bigger" person ... don't lower yourself BELOW his level.
Probably what happened is that you mistook infatuation for love. Most people do ... at least once, sometimes more than once. Infatuation always ends, and it doesn't look like or feel anything like love. And when it ends ... no one's to blame for that. What's happened is the neurochemicals in the brain that produced the "high" of infatuation habituated and stopped responding ... no one can be blamed for that.
Don't be a fool. Learn the difference between infatuation and love. Of course you two were dating seriously .. and then the infatuation stopped and he stopped feeling "high" about you. What was he supposed to do .. fake it with you? Pretend he still "loved" you when his brain stopped the game?
He had a breakdown and went to live with his mommy? And you want to kick him when he's down. OMG, that is totally heartless of you. What is wrong with you?
Forget astrology. It's crap and your life is better without it.
No matter how badly you feel, don't write letters to anyone, just put it down to a bad experience and move on (easy for US to say, I know!). If you start writing letters pouring out your heart, they could end up on here, on facebook or everywhere else you never wanted them to be. You WERE wronged and yeah, it may be harsh, but you've learnt and in a twisted way you will end up a richer/wiser person as a result.
Being the 'bigger/better person' is hard as it may require you to swallow a bit of pride, but it shows a steely strength of character that not many people have. You MUST display it. When you look in your mirror, know that you are strong, when you go out, get your head up and look people right in the eye. It will hurt like hell but you can do it. If you don't, you will sit around getting more and more angry and fall into the trap of becoming a bitter and twisted person. DON'T let that happen. I wish you well.
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I'm a Leo male and my Libra GF did the same.At first,I begged her 'cause I loved her so much but I didn't waited too much that I went to her home.Dragged that ***** outside to abuse the heck out of her.Don't wait Leo baby.There is no point in waiting with a Libra piece of ****.Do it as fast and you can and get another Leo,Saggi or Aries boyfriend fast else we will keep thinking of him.Also cut every contact with him.It took me about 6 months just to recover cause I thought she is gonna be a soul mate.I'm dating a Saggi now and she is doing everything but I'm so cautious this time but I hate being cautious.Love so much that's it.
If you date another Leo,if you can make him happy,give him attention,I'd recommend that.Else an Aries.Libra's are indecisive and ******* who manipulate everything and by the time they balance thing,you'll be out.