everytime i get money my boyfriend doesnt like me to buy him things or if i ever mention i want to take him out to eat he just says no i dont want you spending your money on me you work too hard. but yet he buys me everything and anything! i just want to be able to buy him things.. hes the sweetest guy ever and i love him and hes not a jerk either its just that
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In my experience, I've found that guys say that at the beginning of a relationship but really love to be spoiled. My husband used to say that all the time but even then, he never turned down any of my gifts. I say, if it really is YOUR money, spend it on whatever you want. If you want to get him something, then do it :). If he gives you a hard time about it, use it against him and say that it's your money and you decided that you wanted to spend it on something for him. If he turns it down, then damn he's not a keeper. A boyfriend should be appreciative under any circumstances. Just relax and don't make it into a bigger issue than what it really is :)
Anonymous
If you want to spend money on him either buy him a stripper for the night or go to the strip club and buy him a lap dance.
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Omg!!!! Your going through this too???? My nd spoils me rotten and if I spend a don't on him my punishment is to go spend his whole damn paycheck on me in a day!!!! His pay checks are 600 dollars at least so I might as well just not spend anything on him.
Anonymous
I actual have the comparable difficulty with my boyfriend! that would not make you a gold digger. even however you like occurring dates, carry off on them for a on an identical time as and permit him do what makes him chuffed. If he would not get the hint that he could take you on a date and pay for it, then perhaps you will could desire to attempt yet yet differently. desire this helps! Grr to difficult adult males!
Chris
well as a man myself he scared you will leave him or something along them lines so he keeps buying you stuff so you wont go i hope this helps