Friends boyfriend telling friends stuff about her?

We're 14
And my good friends boyfriend has been telling his friends, some of them just complete random boys in our year neither of them are close to, that he fingered her a few monthes ago
Me and her best friend were talking about this and it IS true and now he's telling people
She doesn't know but me and my 2 friends know because our guy friend told us.
It's very embarrassing for her I guess and he's not showing her any respect.

Do we tell her? Speak to her boyfriend?
We think she deserves to know but we don't want to split them up. What should we do?

?2012-12-03T14:29:54Z

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If he's sharing stuff about her it seems they have trust issues :/ I would tell her, if she finds out you guys know she'll ask you about it and feel hurt you kept it from her. If you relaly don't want to tell her try talking to the guy about it and saying that he should stop sharing her chizz around the school and if he does it again your punch him in the face. (:

Justin2012-12-03T22:34:10Z

talk to him about it, of course at first he's going to be a dick and say something mean but thats natural with guys he's just trying to look cool in front of everyone. just tell him that he shouldnt be saying those things but do it in a nice way dont come off all bitchy. if he still does it after, give it a day or so then go talk to the girl at that point if she's mad enough she can deny it ever happened even if it is true

Anonymous2012-12-03T22:29:42Z

You should tell her if it was me I would want to know

Anonymous2012-12-03T22:56:08Z

Tell her she needs to know