My girlfriend is 21, wonderful in every way and is very beautiful, but I wish she would dress better. She likes to buy clothes at Goodwill and other secondhand stores even though she could afford to buy nicer things. A lot of her clothes are just really worn out looking and some of them have holes. I love her to pieces but it is embarrassing when my friends make comments to me about her looking homeless. I don't need her to dress fancy or buy expensive things, but I would like to find a way to get her to dress a little nicer without seeing seeming like a jerk. What can I do?
Anonymous2013-03-18T19:15:42Z
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You can either buy her clothes, or whenever you two go out and you see something that would look good on her, just pint it out and say, "Hey that *whatever clothing* is nice." or "I bet you'd look amazing/pretty/cute/beautiful in that". Just gentle nudges, don't flat out say something or she might get upset.
You should just love her for who she is some people just don't care much about fashion or would like to dress nicer but don't have much style,
I think if this is really bothering you and if you really give a **** about what your friends think about your lover then. Take her shopping at a mall, pick out some things and suggest to buy them because you'll tell her she would look great and sexy in whatever it is. If she doesn't go for it at first continue to tell her that she's already great looking but she would look stunning in those heels or whatever. She'll go for it eventually after she does see how wonderful she looks in more feminine clothes.
When her birthday comes up, you should give her clothes. You can also suggest clothes to her while you are shopping. Give her different clothes that you would like her to wear. Have fun!
Buy her clothes. When people buy me clothes I feel compelled to wear them even if I don't like them. I don't want people to feel as if they've wasted their money on me so I just wear them.