why is it difficult to find a serious relationship?

I'm not the type of person that enjoys dating a bunch guys. I like finding one guy to have a serious relationship with. Every time I get to "talking" and dating a guy after a while (a couple of months) he always says he isn't looking for something serious... but they still want to see me. Is it just me.. am I just not what they're looking for? Do they just want to hookup? I've never been in a serious relationship. I'm tired of dating one guy after another. I'm in my 20s btw.

Elise2013-05-11T21:38:28Z

i understand 'exactly' what you are saying! i haven't been in many relationships and all my friends have been going out with a guy and another. I'm in a serious relationship of three years, and I think most guys don't want to be in a serious relationship, because they don't want to stay on one girl, but yet again, it depends on the guy. Some guys just don't want to be in a serious relationship when they're still young and some just play around. I don't think it's your fault, it's all about what's going in the guy's mind.

Day2013-05-11T21:40:00Z

Well, good things in life are difficult to find. At least the guys were honest enough to accept that he is not looking for something serious. Do not feel tired, contact some online dating service.

Anonymous2013-05-11T21:35:56Z

I personally think your at the age where everyone wants to have fun, and it will be hard to find a relationship because some of the guys are probably whoring around an stuff! Be patient and Have fun- and I'm sure you will find someone who wants the same! :) good luck!

A A2013-05-11T21:33:17Z

wish more girls were like you! lots of people are immature