Emotional wise by the way. I don't mean this to be an inappropriate question either. It's not religious wise either. I have no guilt about it religious wise an know its normal. But I just feel depressed and stuff after I do it... I mean, what if I get like that when I have sex some day? Ill feel like **** after? I dont know any more
?
Favorite Answer
Hi Angela
This sounds perfectly normal to me. Not everyone enjoys masturbation, believe it or not. I personally don't masturbate ever. It grosses me out too.
You won't feel that way when you have sex, don't worry. Speaking from experience, sex with another person is much more enjoyable than masturbation.
Good luck and I hope that helps :)
TheEditor
At first I thought you might be suffering from "Catholic guilt". Did your parents slap your hands and make you feel ashamed if you played with yourself as a little girl?
After an orgasm there is a drop in hormones and a drop in emotions. This is called the "Resolution Phase" of your sexual arousal.
You are probably having a large crash. Totally normal.
Will it affect you having sex some day? Well.... Ever hear the joke about how girls want to 'cuddle' after sex? The drop in emotion is so common, girls want to be held for a few minutes during the crash and having your partner cuddle you is the normal response. If you have a good guy and he cuddle you, it can change a negative into a positive.
?
well firstr of lillie is ignorant , so do nt pay atention her answere.
actually lots of people feel this way when they have an orgasm, not everytime, and sometimes stringer feelingthan other times.
when you have an orgasm, its a COMPLETE release of your body, it a whole physiological thing.
mental and physical all connected, some men actually cry after an orgasm, even when their with a girl, or guy, its something that happens. but it goes away, right??
your ok, maybe just super stressed out.
maybe you might want to get imnto therapy for a while and discuss some deeply hidden emotions, get those out of the way.
oneless emotion runnnig thru your mind and body
?
I think it can be normal. You go from incredible feeling to suddenly feeling a little ashamed. That only lasts about 3 seconds for a guy before they are horny again.
?
it's normal, even when I have sex I feel kinda sad after I dont know . It has like a high to it i guess haha.