The Mirror of Reason and experiment gone Wrong... or Right? May i have your opinion?

I recently had an epiphany.

As I was looking in the mirror I notice that without a type of mirror I would never be able to see my face. A regular mirror does not show who I am inside so I wanted to see one aspect of me, but how to do it.

So know to see myself I need to start small, I choose Annoyance.
Why annoyance? simply because it is something that I have always had a hard time with, I can't think of anything that annoys me, nor could I find an annoying thing about anyone. I understand what annoying means, just for me I don't see it.
So, How Annoying am I?

I asked this to many people and they all said I was not at all except when I ask weird questions like this one.
I don't see this question as annoying.

Then I ask what other things are annoying, they listed many things, and people, even reason why they are annoying, but I did not agree, I explained why they do it, and it makes sense that they behave that way. They saw it too, but still found it annoying.

I have found because I cannot see annoyance anywhere, I must be the cause of all annoyance based on the mirror effect or I am the most annoying person in the world. Everyone (my surveyed group) is seeing Annoyance, as they would all see my face, and they can see annoyance in other things that would reflect my face, I would not recognize it as my doing as I do not see myself. OR I cannot see annoyance as I cannot see my own face. (without the use of a mirror)

Hench, I am only what the can see and I cannot see.

2014-01-09T07:19:59Z

Larry F : Had a friend in high school that would do those things and more just to get me mad, or get a reaction from me than "oh no worries". I just stopped saying anything after he did it. But it never bothered me. I understood why he was doing it.
People, most, have a tendency of not liking others to be different than they are, or if someone achieves something that others have strive for and just could not get there, others will generally try to put them down, belittle, or state they are cheating some how. I'm use to it. and I find it reassuring that people don't try to give up.

pasquale garonfolo : think you have gone off a tangent

pasquale garonfolo2014-01-09T04:39:48Z

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Through your calm deep reflection you can get considering (like being one with the immensity of stars above) the reasons of your annoyance. When your annoyance is calmly objectified, it may loose momentum.

As for your life of now and for future, as for how you do see your face in a mirror, you may try and more be adopting the attitude of a witness that wants to detect more in depth the particularities of your personality.

As for the ways of your life of now and for future, you might try and more be adopting the attitude of a more diligent experimenter, so that your careful daring experimenting may evoke newer experience (good, or bad and needing corrections, more acceptable changes) that may be leading you on to more expertise so that eventually you may become the cleverer expert and or even the admired great glowing master or the holy saint on the path or avenue of your own life.

In your more cunning more magic experimental style of life and also especially in your necessary interactions with hopefully good supportive others friends and or good strangers in your world, you may decide that you do want to be the good actor, then you are the good actor, the braver master of your own life, the fiercer hardy more daring higher flying pilot and co-pilot unto your own future, unto your own destiny.

The proud diligent attitude of you as a cleverer experimenter may evoke in your mind, in your eyes, in your face, in the whole of your own person and personality, the fresher more sun-kissed glow of healthier life, and that will be what you will be able to see with joy when you see your face in the good mirror.

I am not joking! Ah! ah! ah! ah! ... ah! Good luck!

American Patriot2014-01-09T04:57:10Z

If every time a certain guy came near you, he flicked his finger against your ear, wouldn't that annoy you? If every time you were walking down the street, somebody would sneak up behind you and kicked your heel behind your other foot and you'd trip, wouldn't that annoy you?
Don't any commercials on t.v. just grind you, like they are insulting your intelligence? Those annoy me.
I think there has to be something that bugs you...it's only human.
It should annoy you when you are right about something and someone insists that you are wrong...just sayin'