Why do men believe they have the right?

To space in womens' shelters?

Women built them, slowly gathering individual, then local, then privatized funds support. Contrary to belief, few receive tax dollars.

They receive donations and grants. They pushed for local support, proving that each shelter would not be a community or neighborhood problem.

They are private, guarded and create no trouble because of the secrecy of their locations.

One could be on your block and you'd not know.

After all this work for 50 years, why should men have free access? 

Why can't they do the work to understand battered mens' needs and build what's needed?

2014-01-22T00:38:42Z

Atheism definitely has the right take on this.

These shelters were bought and renovated with private monies, from women and agencies supported by women.

All I see here are men trying to claim what has never belonged to them.

Not one has put forth an idea for building for themselves - only taking what women have created through hard work.

2014-01-22T00:45:46Z

Princess Blaise- excellent points In my opinion, all these false stats about men being abused and raped by women are to deflect the reality in which women live and to keep men from both accepting and dealing with the violence men perpetrate upon women.

2014-01-22T00:52:53Z

Filthy - being a woman is not a race...and since when did men choose to help everybody? That's ridiculous.

2014-01-22T00:58:47Z

Sarah Leo - women are not required to pay. That's why it's so expensive to run. Women rest, recover, create a life plan and are moved to safe neighborhoods where they cannot be found and hurt. Often in other states. The laws regarding children are followed in each state, so no woman is a felon..

2014-01-22T01:08:12Z

TBBrit - You obviously don't understand the safety needs of battered women - it's not about what you want or are comfortable with. It's about what THEY need to recover and move on in life.

?2014-01-22T00:21:26Z

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Men who complain about this have no understanding of how shelters came about. All they see is someone getting something they're not and it makes them jealous and angry.

?2014-01-22T00:15:14Z

I think men and women who have been victims of domestic violence should just have separate shelters. It'll be a more comfortable environment for both genders.

ʄaçade2014-01-22T00:36:11Z

If they are privately funded, run them as you see fit.

If tax payers fund them, in whole or in part, then they must be run according to tax-payers' rules.

Thank you for creating and operating the shelters without tax money.

Added: Oh, by the by, could you please list which DV shelters in Norway are NOT government-funded? Tusen takk!

True Blue Brit2014-01-22T00:34:31Z

I would have no problem allowing battered men into a shelter, such as these.

Edit: Actually, I believe I do. I have some knowledge of battered women, and those same women were battered by an intimate partner, not by strange men. It's not like rape victims, traumatised by rape by a stranger, and who fear all men. Victims of abuse fear their attackers, not all men. Well, that's my perception, anyway. And yes, I do know quite a few women who have been battered.

Anonymous2014-01-22T00:28:22Z

Donation and grants from whom?? Please specify....from shady business and kick back funds gathering at public trough?

And btw, most of women in such shelters are hookers and drugs addicts doing business right in the premise.

A well educated, we'll breed and upbringing lady would be terrified of such "victims" in such shelter!

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