I'm a guy 17 and in my past relationships I have been betrayed and cheated on and yelled at because I actually cared and treated them like a princess and never did the stuff they did to me, i do have self confidence but no one in my school likes me, what did I even do wrong? And my parents don't allow online dating and I don't even remember what I did to get a gf in the first place and other guys make it look a lot easier than it actually is? Help?! Thank you
Anonymous2014-02-14T16:57:50Z
I had a break up 3 weeks ago, I know how you're feeling. I'm also 17 and aside from my past relationship, the other ones I was betrayed and/or cheated on. All I can say is be confident and never submit to ALL of your girlfriend's needs. I know it sounds counter-intuitive, but its a turn off if you're needy and dependent. Girls like guys who are independent and can be happy on their own. Also, if you're insecure, it can lead to jealousy and being clingy, also huge turn offs. All of those could of happened that made them turn away.
well I remember last time, your friends suggested someone that you were not too sure about, but once you dated her you liked her. Maybe that is the right path for now, ask your one close friend if she knows anybody who is not dating, and try for her even if from the outside she does not seem like your "type" ---- broaden your horizons. You might also consider looking one or two grades lower. those girls might be flattered to have been noticied by an older guy.