serious help! how do I flirt the easiest way and get a girl that i dont know in effort for her to be my gf?
I'm a guy and 17 years old and I have no clue how to flirt with a girl in person and I just had been out of a loveless relationship, help? And don't make fun of me please I never flirted in person only in text and that never ends well and its hard when youre seeking that kind of help on YA when you get made fun of on it also, please give as much accurate info as you can please I need all the help I can get.Thank you!
Anonymous2014-02-21T10:11:44Z
Compliments(: Drop in a few in a conversation, but dont make them powerful or weak. If she makes an effort to look good, stepping out and saying "You look nice" will flatter her and engage you two into a conversation. This is also a good way to get to know her. In the conversation, look interested and ask her questions about herself, rather than keeping the topic on yourself. Once your good friends, giving her a PLAYFUL punch on the shoulder and smiling at her will send the message that you like being around her. If you ever get stuck on a conversation, say something funny or start a subject about something you both like. A song, or a certain movie. That are the basics of flirting, and if she responds well, you know your doing it right.
But dont seem clingy and stalkerish, since that puts us girls off. And also, dont shower her with compliments or else she'll quickly become bored of you. Hope I could help!(:
Hahaha. I enjoyed reading this question. You sound like my friend. Well, i will tell you right now girls are very different. You say hey cutie, and one will think ur a player, another totally cute, and another thinking you're creepy. You could say you look nice and one will think you're adorable, another awkward Girls are confusing, so be yourself. Some girls like awkwardness, they think its adorable. Others like straight out wooing. Calling them sexy and hollering out. I know I like guys who are awkward towards me and has a humor. Flirting can go with that or teasing, but avoid sensitive girls then. Sometimes they take things too seriously with what you say. This is why guys say its impossible to understand a girl. Us girls are so different from each other. Some girls? They're gold diggers and won't care if you are good for them. Seriously, be yourself, and maybe some humor won't hurt. You don''t need to flirt, just show who you are and some will come to you because they're attracted. Yeah its hard, but its better than nothing.
Smile first. Smiling always makes someone feel more comfortable around you. You could start having a normal conversation with her and maybe complement her hair or personality or something. Talking to her is best to make sure you like not just her looks but also her personality. Brushing past someone and touching them is also great. :D
Every relationship has a process. 1) meet 2) get to know each other 3) start being friends and hanging out 4) then they like each other 5) they start dating 6) Finally the have a love relationship
i feel for you. so i'm going to give you some pointers. when you see the girl you fancy, smile. be extra friendly and courteous to her so she feels you're treating her special. there are lots of ways to tell someone you've taken a liking to her- raising your eyebrows, smiling, maintaining eye contact with her. take it one step at a time. when she recognizes you're paying attention to her through those signals, and responds positively to you by answering you back, (like you give her eyebrows, she gives you eyebrows) then go the next step. talk to her, get to know her, feel your way around each other. there's more in a relationship than just looks. then when you feel you're ready and strong in your friendship, ask her out. and if you really enjoyed each others company that 1st date, push another.