I'm going crazy!! My husband has a new female friend , he says it's innocent., but is it ?! please any advise?

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There is nothing innocent about what your husband is doing. He is carrying on a relationship with another woman and still getting to have sex with you. He is not dedicated to fixing your marriage and you are being far too tolerant of his behavior.

You tell him when he is ready to walk away from this other woman for good and go to marital counseling with you, then you can talk about saving the marriage but with the way things are right now, he is going to continue doing as he pleases and so you need to stand up for yourself. Be strong and give him an ultimatum no matter how much losing him hurts you because what he is doing right now is killing you....Show more

LADY YOU ARE A DUMB A**

You kick him out because of an inappropriate convo with a woman, then you sleep with him????????
Rule 1: If you kick a man out, you don't speak to him until he comes begging on his knees to be with you again and swears on his life he will never break your trust again.
Rule 2: I would never allow my husband to be friends with a woman outside of work, and that's why mine is completely faithful, you'd be smart to follow that rule

My husband doesn't run this relationship, it's a mutual thing, but he knows not to cross the line, because I don't put up with anything, and you shouldn't either!

You could be a happily married woman with all the confidence in the world, all it takes is you putting your foot down and knowing why he married you in the first place.

Tell him to ditch the women friends or he's out for good. Stop having sex with him until he earns your trust back. Don't even talk to him until he can prove he deserves you.

I'm serious about the lady friends, no successful marriage in my entire family involves a husband having women friends on the side. I think you should already know that....Show more

DO YOU HAVE CHILDREN? That is the huge question here. If so, everything you plan has to be in their best interest. In other words are you financially stable should you move out on your own?If not then you need to consider what is best for the children.
If you have no children , then plan slowly and carefully what you want to do to move out eventually and be financially stable. I dont think discussing it with him any longer will help.
While I do not think his current relationship is innocent, it is an escape from you.
Im sorry you are in this bad situation...Show more

you love him but he is treated you like dirt

you are better than dirt - understand?...Show more