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Married female friend text my husband...alot?

My husband has a married female friend who texts him alot. Like about 100 times a day. I see all the texts and he doesnt hide anything.

She even texts him while she is with her husband. Is there something more to this? It all seems like innocent flirting. What do you think?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    I think I would be telling that heffer to quit texting husband and pay attention to her own family.

  • 1 decade ago

    Does she text you alot too? I don't think that it is appropriate for a married woman to text a married man so much. Maybe talk to the two of them about it the next time the four of you are hanging out. What does her husband think about it, do you know?

  • 1 decade ago

    that's outrageous! i adore my husband and that;s about how many times we text in an average day. i can't imagine some other married woman talking to him that much. what could they possibly have to say? i would also think if you are interested in having a monogamus relationship flirting wether you call it innocent or otherwise should not be happening between you and another man or you husband and another woman. the potential is there for it to lead to something else. you need to talk to him and straight out tell her to start paying her attention to her own husband.

  • 1 decade ago

    Girl needs to get a life. 100 texts a day, to your husband? Doesn't this drive him crazy? If the text message are innocents enough no big deal. It would drive me crazy that its so much and so often. But why would she spend so much time doing this? What is she ignoring at home? Sounds like trouble in the making. You can't see the forest for the trees.

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  • 1 decade ago

    If it's so innocent then why doesn't she ask this woman's husband what he thinks of his wife constantly texting her husband? What possible reason could your friend have for allowing her husband to behave this way and disrespect her?

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Married people have no business texting other married people or single. Especially not that many times a day. Please I bet not even you do that. Talk to him and tell him how it makes you feel and how you expect it to stop and fast. Tell him how he would feel if it was the other way around. If he doesn't stop and doesn't care about your feeling then you know there is more going on there. Talk to her husband and ask him if he knows what is going on. Maybe he doesn't know.

    Try talking to him first about how it makes you feel. Ask him to stop doing it for respect for you.

    If it doesn't stop well you know for sure something wrong is going on.

  • Linni
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Could go either way. My question is: why in the world does she need to text him when she has a warm-blooded male she made vows with right next to her? And vice versa. What would she or your husband want to share with each other rather than you or her husband? A bit sus if you ask me.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Maybe you say to your husband you are not happy with her texts him that many times and suggest to him not to answer them for a while and tell him to turn the phone off when you are at home or see if he will let you answer one . And tell her you are to busy to answer her text as you are making love.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    WHAT is she texting to him that has to be said 100 times a day? haha...! If you let this continue, your pretty much condoning this behavior and condoning this behavior is a temptation to cheat... obviously talking to another woman via text 100 times a day is a behavior showing your husband needs to communicate with her... so why does he need to communicate with her 100 times? What is being said?

    Don't condone this behavior at all.. you should put your foot down and demand they stop it now.

  • 1 decade ago

    she is a text freak!!!!! And she wants your husband, and if he shows them to you then there is nothing to worry about , unless you just don't care about your husband!!!! then well i guess this was a wasted question!!!!! No i would set her straight and him, if he is showing you those texts then he disrespects you by letting this woman text him!!!!

    Source(s): and i would text her and tell her in fact fwd one from your phone to her phone and show her exactly what she is texting!!! A FREAK!!!!! she wont text him again!!!! just don't let him know !!! do it really fast!!!
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