Im 39 years old...I started going out with a co-worker and we hit it off..i think im falling for her..she is funny smart and beautifull...the only thing is that she is overweight..iv never been with a plus size woman before...I think thats the only thing thats keeping me from having something serious with her...she seems so perfect for me...im thinking about stopping to see her but afraid of missing out on a great thing..she is special...any advice is appreciated...
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I guess at this point it's all about sexual attraction. You can think a friend is funny, smart, and beautiful. But if you don't have that 'spark' it's just going to make it that much harder to stay in that warm fuzzy feeling stage. I'm dealing with a very similar situation right now and it's been slowly eating at me. So if you think there is some chemistry there go for it but if not in the end everyone is just going to be heart broken.
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Sounds like you are in love. Make sure you know her well and have a good foundation before things get serious. Her weight shouldnt be the deciding factor if you love her or not. It should be who she is. Answer mine? I need guy advice
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If you truly love her as a person, the plus size won't matter.
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If you love her, you would tolerate her flaws.