Ex Friend Became A Stalker?
In the past, I have asked advice on this particular person. So please do not think I am repeating myself. If you are familiar with my questions in the past. This is something new I thought would not happen. I have managed to get this toxic friend out of my life. He was very demeaning and insulting. He had more problems than what I was prepared to give help to. We were friends for 8 months. I ended the relationship. I told him he was to toxic for me. I also told him I do not like his crazy messages on my machine. I told him this last month. I was finally brave enough to stand up to him. I was scared to do it at first.
Because, I did not know how his mental state was. Like if he would commit suicide or something. But, it got worse. His phone calls were of him repeating my name 3 times in a row. Then, making demands I call him. Than the next call he would be crying on my machine. Saying things like how he needed help, how he does not know whats wrong with him. Even after I would turn down dinner dates he got ruder and ruder even over text. So I finally had to block him on facebook, and block his cell phone number.
That did not work. He called from his home phone number leaving a confrontational message. So I called and told him he was toxic and how I am scared of him. He finally quit. Out of the blue he calls to wish me a Happy Birthday two days ago. Yeah, acting like nothing happened. Than he starts talking about how he has no job blah blah blah. Is this a future stalker guys
By the way, he has no car. I doubt he will just show up at my doorstep. But his calls are scaring me. It got to the point I have had nightmares of him. He is a lonely 51 year old man with no car, no job and hardly any friends.