What should me and my boyfriend's last name be? p.s. we're gay.?

Should it be Tessari-Miller or Miller-Tessari?

_Ryan_2014-07-04T01:16:26Z

Congratulations!

Miller-Tessari definitely sounds better; otherwise, Tessari dominates too much with the hard "T" and the "sari" variation, making Miller after it disappear from the softer "m" and the standard "er".

kumorifox2014-07-04T08:39:35Z

It's entirely up to you. My fiancé and I decided we're going to keep our own names and not hyphenate them at all.

If you've already decided to do that, then I'd go with the second one.

Topher2014-07-03T23:04:40Z

If his last name is Miller, the first. If not, convince him the first is better.

JEFF2014-07-03T23:03:07Z

Miller-Tessari sounds better.

Crim Liar2014-07-03T23:00:24Z

Which ever you prefer! My boyfriend and I have discussed this and for us it's an easy choice; my surname being a little unusual sounds better last.

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