Is it that bad that I don't go out?
I have a girlfriend (almost 19 years old) who quite often goes out for a coffee with her girlfriends. Her ex used to do it too with his friends and with her and she sees that as the usual thing.
I'm almost 18 and literally none of my friends just randomly go out for a coffee or even just go out together, not counting Friday night drinking. I go out with my girlfriend sometimes, but otherwise I do my own things and don't go into public that much.
She says that that's wrong and that all her guy friends do it, but I don't see that from my experience. Should I do something about this? Hardly any of my friends actually drink coffee (I hate it) and those who do, dink it at home.. Is there something else we could just randomly do? I always sort of do things with them for a purpose, not just out of boredome