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Is it that bad that I don't go out?
I have a girlfriend (almost 19 years old) who quite often goes out for a coffee with her girlfriends. Her ex used to do it too with his friends and with her and she sees that as the usual thing.
I'm almost 18 and literally none of my friends just randomly go out for a coffee or even just go out together, not counting Friday night drinking. I go out with my girlfriend sometimes, but otherwise I do my own things and don't go into public that much.
She says that that's wrong and that all her guy friends do it, but I don't see that from my experience. Should I do something about this? Hardly any of my friends actually drink coffee (I hate it) and those who do, dink it at home.. Is there something else we could just randomly do? I always sort of do things with them for a purpose, not just out of boredome
1 Answer
- broeklienLv 75 years ago
Wel if you wouldnt even try anything new for your girlfriend then maby you are not so in to her after all. God forbid you try something new. She is not one of your drinking buddies. And its not like 'going drinking' is such an interesting thing. You could go see a movie or teach her driving in an old pick up on a back road, you could see if they have something other than coffee in that place she likes. Its just sad to see that you would rather post a question on a website about her than actually going with her and having a great time. If you love someone you could have the best time just having a pop in a parking lot.
So are you ready or should she just find a guy that does feel like spending time with her? Shes going to meet that guy anyway if you neglect her like that.
Love is all about opportunities and good times. And there are plenty around everywhere she goes.