My girlfriend is going to let someone who kissed her before train her at the gym?

It s a workout program that lasts so many weeks I don t know if I should alllow it. It really bothers me the person she s going to pay to train her is a guy she kissed before and went out with a couple times but that s it. It still bugs me though because it s like I don t think she d cheat or anything but maybe she s using someone as an excuse to get over me? Also, I m more athletic than this other guy I m bigger stronger taller etc I m pretty confident in myself most the time but this has shaken a bone within me what should I do?

Aleks2016-12-19T19:42:53Z

I think you're right to take issue with it.

If she has a history with the guy, then its strange that she's chosen him to be her trainer. She may be faithful, but he could also be looking to convince her to be into him. Its also a very physical undertaking, lots of spotting and stretching etc.

If you're worried you should tell her you're concerned and you'd prefer that she trained with someone else. Don't tell her to do it, but tell her how you feel and suggest that that would make you feel more comfortable.

Caleb2016-12-19T23:10:52Z

If you're having problems, those problems need to be addressed when you and her have a talk.

Anonymous2016-12-19T19:42:45Z

If she kiss him b4...chances are she will spread her legs again....cus if by chance his crotch suddenly touched her...she will get turn on fast

?2016-12-19T19:41:04Z

You have no power to allow or disallow her to do anything! You are both adults.