What should my next step be?

There's this guy, Jeff who I have known a few months. When we first met, he could barely utter a word to me and he would get very shy. I decided to start talking to him.

Now, he opens up to me about his daily happenings, we have inside jokes, and There's a ton of sexual tension. He was checking me out the other day and was nearly drooling. He told me he was impressed with my fitness progress.

The problem is that he is very hard on himself and his appearance. He fears having his heart broken and he feels he doesn't deserve someone.

I suggested he come hike with me, and he said he's not good at hiking. So I'm not sure what to do next? Should I keep trying?

2017-06-11T05:35:33Z

One of his hesitations may also be because my fiance passed away last year.

Anonymous2017-06-11T16:09:46Z

I would just ask him for gay anal sex

Anonymous2017-06-11T05:47:09Z

(You answered my question about a girl asking me to go to the gym. Thx)

I say, don't give up on him yet.

If you are interested in this guy, then I think he needs some indications from you. Typical things.. playing with hair, laughing at his jokes, look at his eyes and lips and keep alternating between the two. Be OK with bumping into him getting him used to being OK with physically touching you, especially skin to skin. I know some guys need hints but this guy sounds like he needs something more glaringly obvious.

rajeevsarita2017-06-11T05:00:06Z

Take your own decision after reading all views expressed by all the friends here above.
At the end of the day either you gain or lose. No one is affected by this.

RILEY822017-06-10T23:21:03Z

He seems shy try to hint to him.
Sorry if it didn't help.

Mike2017-06-10T20:20:49Z

I would suggest going for drinks, usually alcohol helps calm tensions and shyness... then maybe go dancing :) if he doesnt make a move, just bring your lips close, he will do the rest :)

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