Should you be mad at your gf/bf or random guy or girl?

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I never understood why like when a bf catches his gf having sex with a guy (who didn't know she had a bf) why does the bf try to beat up the guy? I'm not saying the bf should beat up his gf I'm just saying like in situations where the guy doesn't know the girl has a bf because she never told him, is it fair that the guy gets beat up? Or vise versa, why does the gf beat up the unsuspecting girl who didn't know the bf had a gf? Or in other cases in general why does the bf/gf get mad at the random person rather than their gf or bf?

Like I see it as two admins in a relationship. If one of then are caught cheating then that means it's one of the admins faults. See her I'm saying? Like if I caught my best friend having sex with my gf, I would be made at my best friend but mainly my gf because, unless my best friend FORCED my girl to do something like that, if would be my girls fault for APPROVING something like that. Someone can get into another person's relationship UNLESS one of the two admins ALLOW something like that to happen.

But like I was saying my first paragraph is about RANDOM people, second one is ABOUT BEST FRIEND so don't get them confused

ez2tock2 · Answer

When a person gets Mad, they tend to think with their HEARTS instead of their Head.  They feel ANGER and act on it.  When they calm down and the EMOTION changes, most will regret what they have done, but saying "I'm sorry" doesn't change or help anything.

When a person falls in Love, they tend to feel with their HEAD.  That's why guys and girls REJECT themselves, Before "giving their crush a chance" to say "No".
Sometimes BOTH people have a crush on each other, but BOTH were too scared to say anything, so they both lose out.

If the HOTTEST, SEXIEST Girl you have ever seen approached you and you were a little tipsy or lonely, would you STOP her from talking to you?  Then talk you into Dancing with her?  Stop her from Kissing you?  Stop her from Asking you for a ride home.  Stop her from Undressing in front of you? 
 
When you are TIPSY or LONELY, Could You Reject The Hottest Sexiest Girl NAKED in front of you??

Should YOU get beat up Or HER, because she has a GF, 
just as Hot and Sexy as Her???

Most guys THINK with the Head in their ZIPPER.

Is that a reason to BEAT UP someone else??

Anonymous · Answer

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RP · Answer

This may be the result of not wanting to believe your girl/boyfriend could actually betray you in that fashion. As a result, the offended party takes it out on the other person. It is illogical, but cheating never makes much sense, if any.

Should you be mad at your gf/bf or random guy or girl?

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