When he drinks he gets hateful. Fortunately we live in different states, but what do I do when they come to visit? I want to see my daughter and grandson. Can I insist he doesn’t drink when he’s here? Is that even enforceable?
Anonymous
Troll
If you are too simple to know you can make any rule you tiny mind wants then you need to stop trolling as you are really lousy at it.
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You can make whatever rules you want in your house. No alcohol, and no people who have been drinking, is certainly a rule that you can make and enforce. But you need to be careful because you can make that rule, and he can simply decide they are not bringing your grandson to visit anymore.
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Extend an invitation to your daughter and grandson only. Tell your daughter why - you're afraid of your son-in-law. Your house, your rules.
Kyle
don't go into his home if he drinks. insist on meeting at public places. restaurants. parks, malls. etc.
if he does start drinking and become hateful and violent, as a result, call 911 for fear of safety.