What is love?

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I've been on this website over and over, asking for girl advice for this girl that I'm tryna get with. In the descriptions I keep explaining how much I like this girl and that I'm "in love" with her. I've gotten plenty of responses saying "I'm not in love" and to move on.

Apparently since "love" is such a rocket science that only experts know. I've asked a friend if it was normal to fall in love with someone who isn't your boy/girlfriend yet, and they said "yeah, that's normal." If that's the case, WHY ARE PEOPLE TELLING ME THAT I'M NOT IN LOVE. WHAT IS BEING IN LOVE? WHAT IS THIS THAT I FEEL THEN????

P.S. If it's because people think I don't know anything about her, hence why I haven't taken her on date yet, then they're wrong because I know tons about her. We would talk in class about everyday and I learn something new about her each time we'd talk.

, · Answer

If you're so "in love" as you claim, why don't you ask her out?  Or are you afraid to find out you two are incompatible?

Faith · Answer

Your profile shows you have asked 6 questions & 4 are this exact one copied and pasted. This likely why you are not getting the answer you want because you change nothing when asking and most of all you are not taking to heart the advice you get. So asking here is getting you nowhere and a waste of your time.

Why is it you think you are going find out what love is on Yahoo Answers? If you think this then you have no idea whatsoever what love is or how it works. Personally I find that sad because many newborn babies experiences love the moment they are born. There are many types of love too and people learn about them as they go through life, not asking on Yahoo Answers.

" asking for girl advice for this girl that I'm tryna get with" - It sounds to me like you have a crush on this girl. You don't even really know her because you claim you are trying to "GET WITH". I have no idea what you mean by get with. Are you going to get together and go shopping or you are talking about a one night stand?

You seem very young and very confused because the kind of love you are talking about is something that grows over time. As any married couple and they will tell you that they love their spouse more than the day they got married. A wedding ring is a symbol of love because it's a circle and has no end.

So stop kidding yourself because you are not in love with this girl, you don't even know her, you have a crush which is pretty much an obsession in your mind. What you need to do is introduce yourself to this girl, develop a friendship which takes a long time and only then will a relationship start if it's meant to happen.

♠ Merlin ♠ · Answer

"since "love" is such a rocket science that only experts know. I've asked a friend if it was normal to fall in love with someone who isn't your boy/girlfriend yet, and they said "yeah, that's normal." "

Is your friend a rocket scientist then?
if he isnt, citing him as the oracle and EVERYONE else wrong, is stupidity

Love is something that grows as you get to know someone, as you spend time with them, something that develops.

What does it matter whether you are in love with her or not ?
you arent even dating her

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