Girlfriend was hurt emotionally and now I have to pay for it?
We have been dating for a solid amount of time last night but she just recently explained what her sexual past was. She was basically forced into things she didn’t know better about and was taken advantage of because she had low self esteem. Those guys she did things with hurt her emotionally because she was young and they took advantage of her innocence. Now she tells me that she wishes our relationship could me more sexual but doesn’t want to commit to that until she’s sure that I’m in her life for the long run. I don’t have a problem with waiting for a bit but we are still pretty young, if she isn’t willing to take it a little further than when we are at now, down the road that is gonna cause some serious sexual frustration for me. It’s not like I need sex from her because we’ve been very happy up to this point without it and I love her for her personality and not her body but she doesnt want to take things further until she knows I’m committed to her. What can I do? Breaking up with her is not an option...